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The Christmas Angel

2011-12-22T05:45:00.000-08:00

Since Jakey was about two years old we've had a Christmas tradition called "The Christmas Angel". It all started when a lady at a yard sale was tossing out a bunch of stuff- put it in a FREE box and sent it home with my kids. The box had all sorts of junk in it- and one little blue mailbox with Santa Clause on the side of it. Jakey seemed particularly fond of the little Christmas mailbox and its red flag. So, one night- just on a fluke I put Christmas candy in the mailbox. Sometime during the next day he found the candy in the mailbox and Sarah spontaneously said "The Christmas Angel mailed you candy, Jake-Jake!!" And that was the beginning of one of our favorite Christmas traditions!

The Christmas Angel comes each night beginning sometime around December 10th leading up to Christmas- bringing small toys, candy and various treats- usually wrapped up in a scripture verse telling about the birth of Jesus. The Christmas Angel does not come on Sunday Morning- because it's a "holy day" and she doesn't want to interfere with church preparations :)

The Christmas Angel is "magical" in that- sometimes.....she leaves a trail of glitter. And somehow-we know that the angel is a "SHE". There's LOTS of speculation on Jakey's part regarding the Christmas Angel....last year he thought she was very tiny (like Tinkerbell) and she flitted about the world bringing good tidings. This year, he figures that she's VERY BIG and I quote, "probably can hardly fit in our house because she has to carry Christmas Angel gifts across the whole universe. Probably even Mars!" Other speculations for reasons unknown to me- the Christmas Angel wears a braided bun like Princess Leia in Star Wars. And she has wings- but they stay under a cape. (A cape??? Hey, it's his Christmas Angel!)

This year the Christmas Angel has been particularly forgetful....so forgetful that to cover up her forgetfulness and not disappoint big blue eyes and a believing heart.....Mommy had to explain to Jake that maybe the Christmas Angel was playing a game? Maybe SHE DID COME....but, she wanted Jakey to search for the treat......and mommy had to scurry down the hall and tend to some very quick business!!!! The Christmas Angel has sent Jake on a treasure hunt three times (so far) this year. !!!!

So, this explains our little Christmas Angel tradition. I'm seriously considering writing a children's book about the Christmas Angel and how she comes to homes with the special mailbox to bring Good Tidings of Great Joy....one day....when there's peace on earth....and a silent night...I just may be writing about a little angel that puts the anticipation of the Christ child in the hearts of little children....

Mothering In A Pinch....

2011-12-10T07:42:00.001-08:00

Last night the kids and I were getting ready to go to the Fox 8/ Sealy Christmas concert at the coliseum.
Jacob reminded us that last year we went to the coliseum to see the Toy Story 3 on Ice program. He recalled that we bought popcorn, drinks and that we listened to Amy Grant music on the way there....then- he reminded me that I sprayed him with invisible spray.

WHAT? I asked him. He said, "Remember that I didn't bring my coat with me and it was really cold and you made me wear Rebekah's pink coat and I started to cry because I didn't want to see Buzz Lightyear in a pink coat??"

Oh Yes! The memory was coming back......

He continued...."And you said that you had 'invisible spray' in your purse that would make it so that no one could see the dumb pink coat."

I was grinning from ear to ear at this point.

"Did it work?" I asked.

"Yes! No one ever saw that I had a pink coat on!!"

I now remember us standing in the coliseum parking lot and I pulled a travel size can of hairspray out of my purse and hosed him down with it.....and WAH-LAH.....the coat was invisible!!! :)

And, we enjoyed the show- without tears and without issues. ;)

Channeling Christmas

2011-12-06T09:19:00.001-08:00

So, I'm not feeling all that Christmasy yet....and it seems the older I get, the harder it is to conger up the excitement that used to surge through me regarding the Holidays. It all seems so "chorish" now.

Anyhow, I'm not going to droll on about my lack of "Excelious Deo"....and will spare you the Bah-Humbugs. :) In a true effort to embrace the "Spirit of Christmas Present" I drug my sled (that I bought for only $15 last September for this very purpose!!) and decorated it. This is the first (and so far- ONLY) sign of Christmas :/

I've got Christmas music on and sprayed some "Christmas Berry" air freshener.....may the Glorias in Excelious Deo's commence! :)

Shine!

Cass

UPDATED: I guess the Cmas spirit is slowly descending upon me....I managed to get a few more things done this afternoon....

Antique milk can makes a handy container for a fake $3 tree freshened up with fresh magnolia and cedar clippings.

Not too pleased with my door garland it needs to be spiffed up, but hey! it's hanging! :) I have a small container I'm placing in front of the sled which will be full of winter greenery to hide the bottom of the sled....and I still have to put out my Christmas Welcome mat.....for now, this chick's Christmased out.

Family Fun Day

2011-11-06T15:41:00.000-08:00

We attended Mt. Calvary's family fun day on Saturday. The kids and I had a great time. Here are some pictures from our afternoon....

A church family hosted the event....here you can see the giant pot of chicken stew he spent all morning cooking over an open fire.

The Fun Day was at the homestead of a family that has farmed the land for at least two generations. There's a lot of history and vintage finds all over the property.

Jakey and I getting ready for the hayride

Instead of Wii's and television the children played on haybales almost ALL day....good wholesome fun!

You can't take the country out of the country! :)

Baling wire hanging from the back of one of the outbuildings.

One of the many beautiful views while we were on the hayride....

The Community Table

2011-10-27T16:54:00.000-07:00

I can't believe that I haven't taken the time to tell you about Greensboro's first annual Community Table Dinner that I was able to attend earlier this month (courtesy of my boss and his wife!)

Howard & Jessica- my generous boss & his wife

The dinner was beeyootiful. At $125 per ticket, I have to say, it was worth every single penny spent....(which is probably easy to say, since I didn't buy our tickets....but seriously, it was absolutely wonderful!)
The dinner was hosted at Summerfield Farms and organized by Iron Hen Cafe and Southern Roots (one of our FAVE restaurants!) The evening started off with music, roaming barnyard animals, networking and conversations over drinks at the main barn.

Then, we were given a tractor pulled hayride through the beautiful grounds and property of Summerfield Farms. The sun was sinking and the evening sun was magically turning everything gold and beautiful...the way the sun tends to do. It was truly beautiful.

The music and serenading continued once we reached our destination. The dinner table was set and glistening with china, silver and stemware for 300 diners. It was fantastical!

All of the food served was grown and raised in the local community- by local farmers. The menu was delicious with salad, beef tenderloin (raised on the farm), fresh vegetables cooked SOOO deliciously, apple cider from the nearby North Carolina mountains, local grown grapes provided wines from North Carolina wineries and even the dessert was a tasty southern sweet potatoe pie with homemade cream on top provided by the local dairy.

Much of the food was prepared and cooked on site. The dinner conversation was entertaining- most of it was prompted by "Talk Of The Table" topic cards which were on the table for the guests. The night was enchanted....they even lit and released floating lanterns from the top of the hill....so magical.

You shouldn't be surprised when I confess I was one of the last guests to leave. I loved watching the sun set, and seeing the oak tree lit up with hanging lights, flickering candles and the sweet strains of violin music still filling the night sky. It was a night I will always remember. :)

Shine all your light & Buy Local!!
Cass

We're Going To The Zoo, Zoo, Zoo

2011-09-15T19:07:00.000-07:00

If you have kids- you probably know the Raffi song, We're Going To The Zoo. I can't help but sing it E.V.E.R.Y.T.I.M.E. we go to the zoo, zoo, zoo. ;)Last Saturday we went to the zoo (zoo, zoo...and you can come too, too, too!). I was being especially lazy Saturday morning and Rebekah and Jake we're pulling, prodding and pretty much driving me nutso until I agreed to get dressed and go. I was especially delighted when we called my eldest son Gabe and he agreed to go with us!! Yay! :)

Sarah with her hand on top of a polar bear prints actual size.

With as many trips as we've made to the zoo, we've never had the opportunity to see the zoo keepers give the elephants a bath. This is ARTY the bull elephant. Arty is trained to obey hand signals. The zookeeper instructs him to turn around, come close, lift a foot (to be scrubbed and nails clipped) and to back up with simple hand motions. It was really neat! She even had him lift his truck so that they could clean the holes where his tusks used to be.

Arty awaiting a pedicure.

Kids on the tram. All four of them. Happy sigh. :)

Faith

2011-09-02T09:33:00.000-07:00

The substance of things hoped for....but not yet seen.

We all have had trials of faith. Sometimes we have victorious, spiritual moments of complete triumph. No doubt. No fear. No questions. No condemnation. Absolutely overcoming.

And sometimes we struggle with just the simplest concepts of faith. Trust. Blind trust. Putting our faith in what we cannot see...cannot touch...and sometimes don't feel....not even deep inside-where our soul is most sensitive. Our faith is blinded by what we do see.

That's why the above quote from Elisabeth Elliott is so inspiring to me...

"Faith's most severe tests come not when we see nothing, but when we see a stunning array of evidence that seems to prove our faith vain."

Shine. Always.
Cass

Delighting

2011-08-26T07:49:00.000-07:00

Jakey started 1st grade at a new school yesterday. Last night was our first PTSM meeting. PTSM is like PTA- but it stands for "Parent Teacher Support Ministry". I like that. School is not "school" it's a ministry. And, if you've ever been involved in private schools, co-ops or homeschooling- you know exactly what I mean.

I was expecting a regular sit down-read the minutes- principal make some nice comments- pass around a volunteer sign up sheet- type of meeting. I was very surprised. The pastor of the church came to the meeting and gave one of the best 15 minute, most convicting, passionate and love filled exhortations. EVER.

The seromon had four points to parents and I really want to share them with you.

DELIGHT- Relish the moments. Your children are more than laundry pile makers, orthodontic bill stackers, food eaters, mess makers. When was the last time you TRULY stopped and delighted in your children?
DISCIPLE- It's our HOLY OBLIGATION to disciple our children. Lead, guide, direct, nurture in the admonition of God. You disciple by demonstration. Discipling is done through scripture and love. It's different than punishment and judgement.
DEVELOP- train our child way they should go. Develop character, respect, honor, loyalty. These things are developed and cultivated in our children. Sometimes it takes punishments to "develop" character.
DISCIPLINE- Pastor Callahan made a distinct difference between "Disciple, develop and disciplining" our children. Discipline. You cannot love your children and NOT discipline them.

Another wonderful thing from the meeting last night is that Pastor Callahan "made up" his own motto- inspired by I Corinthians 13.

Now abideth school, church and home, but the greatest of these is home.

Gentle reminders for an overwhelmed mom on the go. Delight in the Lord. Delight in your children. Delight in the small stuff. Delight in the mundane. Delight in their very presence and being. Sounds easy. But life comes at us so fast, harsh and unyielding.

Wednesday night was our last night of summer. I told Jakey I would take him out to dinner for ANYTHING he wanted. He chose SHRIMP! So he and I headed out to a seafood restaurant. He talked about SHRIMP the WHOLE way there...how yummy, good and wonderful it sounded. He asked if he could get it fried and boiled. He asked all about catching shrimp.Cleaning Shrimp. Cooking shrimp. Have people ever had shrimp as pets? How big does a shrimp have to be before its not a shrimp anymore? Have shrimp have ever been trained to be in the movies? We talked about every aspect and angle of shrimp imaginable. And when we got there- the "little shrimp" ordered cod-fish. LOL. Isn't that the way things go? But ya know what? I was DELIGHTING in my little man. It was just him and I.

DeLIGHT yourselves in the Lord and SHINE all your light! :)

Love, Cass

The Eyebrow Whisperer

2011-08-15T10:02:00.000-07:00

I had one of those experiences Saturday that leaves you chuckling to yourself and wondering, "Did that just REALLY happen?"

I needed to have my eyesbrows waxed-and ran into a store and the lady there was surprisingly able to get my right in. The place was VERY busy with manicures and pedicures and I was surprised that the waxing lady wasn't busy as well.

So, they bring me back to this quiet little room and have me sit up on a table- very much like you would at the doctors office.

Then, she turns on a bright examination light- very much like they would use at a doctor's office.

Then, she puts on gloves. I was starting to sweat, because I have an acute case of doctoritis. I don't like being "examined". And I was feeling very much like I do when I'm at the doctors office.

The little asian lady pulls the blinding light closer to my face. Her eyebrows knit together as shes looking me over. She kept staring. Thinking. I was beginning to think maybe this was all a misunderstanding? I wasn't asking for anything other than having my eyebrows waxed. I was truly concerned for a brief moment.

Then in her clipped accent and broken English- while still scrutinizing my face she very matter of factly said, "Whoevah do your eyebrahs mess up your face. Your eyebrah too fahr apart. Make you nose big." (she demonstrated the obtrusive length of my nose by drawing in the air with one hand- while still holding my bangs back and staring at my face.) "You face too long.Too skinny." Then to really drove the point home, with her doctors lamp, gloves and table and all the bedside manners of a..... buffoon (?) she re diagnosed me to make sure I understood. " Your nose too big. Really mess up your face."

She gave me a moment to let this sink in. She seemed very grave...and politely gave me a minute to handle the heaviness of the situation. She even turned her back from me to allow me a moment. The seriousness of having a messed up face should have hit me with a little more emotion. Surely, this news must have deserved a moment of silence. I bit my lip. Not to restrain tears of sorrow....but, because I was trying to retain a giggle. I had to be mature and allow the solemn seriousness of the matter take hold. For goodness sake! This was VERY serious. I needed to pinch myself. Obviously. I mean: I have a messed up face. Why hasn't someone told me?? All this time I thought my big nose was genetics.....but NO!! It's been my waxers fault alllll these years!!!!!!!!!!!!! Maybe I should have been feeling anger? You know- all these years with a messed up face could really cause a person some real emotional scar tissue. Dark bitterness could take root. Uncertainty and trust issues- just around the corner! But the dark cloud of bitterness lifted suddenly- and a bright ray of hope and sunshine came into the room: With a big smile she cheerily said, "I can fix!"

The lady took about 20 minutes to un-mess up my face. She was quite pleased with the results.She kept admiring my eyebrows. She's a legend, I tell ya!
I couldn't really tell the difference....in fact, I don't FEEL "un-messed" up...nor does my nose appear any shorter...but she was very, very pleased with the results. Without asking she booked me another appointment for a few weeks from now- so that no one dare mess up her art of arching. She also gave me very firm instructions to NOT sleep on the right side of my head. It's causing one eyebrow to be too short. Hmmmm. She may be on to something there.
She gave me my appointment card. With a set date and time- which I guess I'm just EXPECTED to make work with my schedule....no questions asked. I don't want to upset the Eyebrow Whisper.

SHINE- and ARCH!! :) Cass

These Moments

2011-07-29T12:03:00.000-07:00

Jacob has been a very keen piano student lately. His eagerness to expand his repertoire from early beginner Alfred songs like "Left and Right" to songs like "Glorious Day" by Casting Crowns is pretty ambitious. After each lesson he asks, "Do you think I can play the piano in church.... tomorrow?" I'm not sure if his desire to be used by the Lord supersedes his desire to be admired. We'll have to work on that. :)

One thing is certain: nothing supersedes his enthusiasm and motivation. He works very hard to make sure his hands stay curved, his back stays straight and that his chair is just the right distance from the piano. He keeps his shoulders back and leans slightly forward....just like the drawings and how I instructed him.

There's nothing sweeter than a little time with your little one imparting to them something that you love. Music has been a lasting gift and refuge during my life....

Shine all Your Light- Cass

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Mother Goose Has A Day Out

2011-07-20T12:02:00.000-07:00

Mother Goose knows where to go to get her bargains! She was having a girls day out with her other mother friends :) Great bird brains thing alike. ;)

She's quite nosey, in my opinion. She was shopping for back to school deals- well ahead of the rest of the mother hens out there. She wanted to know all the details of what I had left the store with.

She followed me all the way to my van. I told her how nice it was to catch up with her, but that I really did need to go home and take care of my own little gaggle of ducklings. ;)

Highland Games: Where You Get Your Kilt On!

2011-07-11T12:54:00.000-07:00

This year was our second pilgrimage to the Highland Games. Honestly, we're really not there for the 'games'...but for the atmosphere, the people, the music, the clans that are dripping with tradition and the love of heritage and motherland. There's a mixture of vibes in the air: gypsy, hippy and tradition. People camp on the mountain from Thursday-Sunday. The tents are wolly-wompus (as far as I can tell) piled on top of eachother- tartan and confederate flags flown with equal pride side by side.

I am- and always have been a people watcher. There is no shortage of sites, people or "what the heck?" moments on Grandfather Mountain during the games. :) At the end of the day- when all was said and done- everything had been touched, gawked at, tried or tasted- it was the music that is everyone's favorite part of the day.

This man was my fave last year- and this year too. I don't know his name nor his bands name...but he's a high energy performer doing it all: drums, bagpipes, singing and even said he wrote a few songs too.

This picture was taken by Sarah. Don't know this bass players name or band name either...but he was G.O.O.D....as in Maxwell House Good....to the last drop. ;)

A warrior with a soft-heart. He was more than willing to pose with the girls. Jake wouldn't get near him.

One of the clans had their booth set up with the history of their ancestry being that they guarded the Kings Castle and properties. This helmet was on display to let the kids see how the clan dressed during the reign of Kings and Queens. The helmet was suprisingly heavy.

By mid-afternoon- Rebekah was positive that she was a Scottish Lass from the yon heather moors. I kept telling her she would LOVE the Highland Games.....and it didn't take long for her to believe me. She was given the opportunity to participate in a celtic fiddle workshop while there.

Tartans, tartans and more tartans. I think I dreamed in plaid Saturday night!

The Highland Games: Barbarians Welcome and Celebrated!

Sarah me lass with a Scotland Flag.

We met the neatest vendor. Her name is Syntheia Finklepott. (really, it's her name!) She threads silken fiary hair into your hair....they're really pretty and she said they can last as long as 8 months!

Jakey had quite a day- at the end of the afternoon he caught his second wind and was ready to tackle this rock wall- and his fear of heights. Well, at least he tried to.

Cello at the fiddle workshop

This is the fiddle player (no, really?!) from Mothergrove the Celtic rock band. They are a powerhouse of energy and fun tunes.

OHIO: A Celebration of Small Town USA

2011-07-06T18:41:00.000-07:00

This barn is somewhere near Dublin, Ohio.

Nelsonville, Ohio.

Hippie Street Revival

2011-06-27T11:39:00.000-07:00

I don't know this ladies name- or the name of her band- but she had an awesome voice and sang "Proud Mary" with such charisma that everyone was up and out of their seats.

I've never seen so many Birkenstocks in one place.

This guy was funny. He said that he meant to wear his Bell-bottom shorts....but they were dirty.

This baby was so cute- she kept clapping and say "Yay!"

A Kurzweil and a Hammond. Bliss.

The main event of the night. The lead guitarist was so much fun to photograph

A drum and dance corp came out during intermission

Winston-Salem at dusk.

A Visit to Mayberry

2011-06-12T15:22:00.000-07:00

A place where grown men are transported to childhood

Southern roots grow deep and can sprout up anywhere ;)

A place where Opie is still seven and the love and respect for Aunt Bea will never waiver or fade

The law is still revered and citizens still pass eachother with a hello on the street and visitors are given a genuine welcome

Where your worth is measured by your values- not your monetary standing.

Some things never change in "Mayberry " Andy Griffith talked about eating here as a child...and mentioned the restaurant in two of the Andy Griffith Show episodes. In later interviews he mentioned Snappy's again saying that he could buy a soda and bologna sandwich here for five cents.

Live music in the outdoor ampitheatre featured all genres of music and wholesome fun.

Howie & The Big,Big Bug

2011-05-06T16:19:00.000-07:00

My 20 month old nephew Howie came over today. Howie loves being outside- and his limited vocabulary has a stock of words relating to the outdoors such as: dog, tree, rock, big, ouchie, birdie, horsey, bike etc, etc.

However, his small arsenal of vocabulary lacked the word to relate to our pet desert tortoise, Lady Templeton.

So he relied on what he knew....."BIG BUG! BIG, BIG BUG!!!!"

I wasn't sure if he was going to try to step on her to squash her like a bug of that caliber would deserve!

He knew he wanted nothing to do with the BIG BUG. Nothing at all.

But she sure was interesting and worthy of observation. We kept saying "Turtle". And he kept saying "bug" in a very, very deep voice- a mixture of quiet reverance, fear and amazement.

He looked at me like a was completely and totally nuts when I told him to give her a kiss. I probably deserved it. And I probably am a little nuts...but that's a whole other blog. :)

He bravely touched her. With one finger. And kinda got the heeber-jeebers.

It took awhile for his juvenille brain to put it all together...but he did eventually. He pointed at her and said, "Turtle bug." As far as I'm concerned. That works! :)

Wishing you all a great weekend- full of new words, new experiences and the opportunity to
Shine All Your Light!

Cass

Birthday Police, Easter and Second Chances

2011-04-25T12:54:00.000-07:00

I love second chances. So many times I have the best of intentions and never get to follow through with them. Eight years ago I bought a book called, "Stories For Five Year Olds" with the intention of reading it to my daughter Sarah before her sixth birthday. She is now 13. We've never read the book.

However, Jakey is 5. And....I've never forgot the book. Nor my intentions.

So, although I reassured Jake that I COULD read him the book after he's six....he's quite concerned that we don't waste a single moment and make sure the book is completed....he doesn't want to come up to the threshold of turning six and have the birthday police revoke his advancement due to an unfinished book about being five. *LOL* I really don't know WHAT he thinks will happen- but he finds it imperative that we forge through this book at a healthy pace. Just in case. Because, you just never know how those darn birthday police will throw around their weight! *grin*
Saturday was my day to celebrate Easter with my little one(s). My "big" ones weren't so interested in egg hunts and kiddy activities so Jakey and I headed out alone to our first Helicopter Egg Drop. Yes, that's right. A helicopter drops eggs by gazillions onto a ball field and then kids run and pick them up. ( I just did some point and shoot pictures on Saturday...I went as a mommy not a photographer)
The event was hosted by a local church and had a lot of activities for the community to participate in. The activity I enjoyed the most was the mime worship group "Silent Praise". They acted out several songs but right now the only one I remember is "I Can Only Imagine". I think it's a great outreach ministry- people were intriqued by their movements- and were able to hear about Christ through it.

Silent Praise at the end of I Can Only Imagine

Notice how full the helicopter is with bags of plastic eggs! I heard they had 27,000 eggs on the field!

Before the egg drop- I got up really early on Saturday morning and did a literature distribution and tract crusade with church. We had the objective of knocking on 2,000 doors in 6 neighborhoods in four hours. We walked and walked. We knocked and knocked. We invtied. We smiled. We talked. We walked and walked. We prayed with a few people- and tried to encourage folks in a variety of situations: cancer, divorce, sons overseas in the war, death of loved ones, sick grandchildren, defaulted mortgages. You know, it was good for me to get out of my bubble and knock on doors and see face to face- eye to eye the people of the community. I haven't done hardly any door to door evangelism in my life. I've done a lot of outreach and activites- but this is something I didn'thave a lot of experience with. But when it comes to talking....that I can do. : ) At one point, I was reminded ...."Cass, we have 1700 more doors to knock on this morning" :)

The whole outing was really heart touching. We came across some rude folks- and some people who had churches and prior plans....but for the most part, foks were kind and willing to talk (and most importantly- listen) for a spell. Two people stick out in my mind....sad stories...open hearts....and we were there to tell them that Jesus came so that humanity could have a second chance. I was so inspired after our tract crusade. It's good to remember there are still spiritually hungry people out there...people that just need us to set aside our agendas and make the time to reach out to them.

In Other News:

I'm excited about a new business proposition. More to come.
In 34 days my son will be an adult.
A trip with my kids to Wilmington is in the planning stages
I have a maternity shoot this upcoming weekend -which I'm excited about
I'm planning a surprise luau birthday party
I'm working on a scrapbook to give my son of his childhood- including letters of memories and best wishes from various people in his life.
I've discovered basil pesto.
Are you aware of the endless attributes and possibilities of basil pesto?!!!!?
My girls and I are going to a Mother Daugther Banquet and we've invited my sons girlfriend. I'm excited about that. <3
My 28-300 lens is messed up :( I'm praying for the Tamron fairy to come and bless it, heal it, fix it...whatever it takes without me having to spend money.

Take advantages of those Second Chances....and Shine All Your Light.

Cass

I Have a Fashion Handicap

2011-04-21T13:01:00.000-07:00

I am many things, but a fashionista I am not. I just that, I don't "get it". I browse through high-fashion magazines and giggle at the ridiculousness of some of the poses, giddups and designs. I'm a very laid back type of person. It's not that I don't iron my clothes or that I run around in sweatpants and ponytails....er...at least there are SOME days that I don't. ;) .....but I can't for the life of me keep up with what trends and fashions are.

Not that I really care to. I don't think.

I just simply don't get it!

The other day I was at TJ Maxx returning some highheels I bought to go with my Easter skirt. I had the shoes at home and had "practiced" walking in my high heels for two days and came to the conclusion that Jesus being raised from the dead on Easter is excitement enough; I shall not sacrafice my life and take my chances to hope for such a miracle on my behalf. So, I returned the perchy little things and found myself at a loss standing there in the shoe aisle. Accessing all the options before me-they were all either too high, too colorful or too flat, to wierd or open toed. Geez. I really was at a loss. Almost on the verge of being frustrated.

I needed someone's help. I looked around. Not at shoes, but at people- accessing the choices. Not the old lady dressed like Mrs. Roper from Three's Company. Not the old man with fuzzy toes hanging off the edge of his flipflops. Not the man with blue fingernail polish and orange dreadlocks putting the shoes I had just returned back on the shelf. I stood for a second tuning into to the conversation of the ladies on the size 7 aisle. I casually made it to the aisle showcasing size 7- to spy out what the lady was wearing and what she was buying. He-he ;) She passed muster.

I said, "Um. Excuse me." All three ladies looked up from their lacing and buckling of potential shoe purchases. I smiled. They stared- curiously.

"Can I ask your opinion? I'm completely lost when it comes to putting together shoes and accessories." (I felt like I was really interfering and began to ramble, like I tend to do when I'm nervous) " YOu see, I have a multicolored skirt and white battenburg lace top for Easter, but I have no idea what color of shoes to wear? There's white sandals in my size but they seemed to casual with the battenburg lace and I..." The middle lady instantly took charge. "What size? Tell me about your skirt and top."

The lady walked right over and grabbed a pair of nudey/beige heels with a modest size bow on the toe. "These are perfect! THey go with everything! Even black!"

"Really?" I ask in bewilderment, because I had passed those shoes 15 times over- thinking they were exactly what I didn't need.

"Absolutely! Nude is the new black!"

"Oh. I thought plum was the new black." I shyly said.

She informed me that plum was last years black. It changed this spring. Oh yes, silly me! Then she filled me in on my newly prized shoes being "all the rage and totally versatile too!" ( I was beginning to wonder if she was making a commission off the shoes!?) She said I can wear them with everything. Especially black (apparently that's a trend) but she said something about NOT wearing them with other solid colors because I would want my accessories to "pop" in that case.

For the record-The only thing in my wardrobe that ever pops is buttons....but I didn't feel the need to tell her that. ;)

"Of course." I mumbled and nodded energetically like the good pupil that I am. I made a mental note: Nude is good. *ha!*
Yes, I'm totally lost. But I wholeheartedly took her advice and am hoping that she doesn't have a hobby of giving unsuspecting dorks bad advice in the shoe aisle. The bow endowed toes have me a tad nervous. She asked about my accessories.....or my lack thereof....she was nice and eager to help. I let her go back to trying on the 10 story high heeled sandles she was still carrying around. Her friends nodded and waved a happy farewell to the imposing fashion dork. ;)
I got home and put on my Easter outfit and strutted my stuff to my girls. My daughter TOTALLY dissed the wide brimmed white hat. I put it back in its box....but kept on my bowey shoes to help stretch them out. Then I changed back into my sweatpants and tshirt. ;)

I know the point of Easter is nothing to do with clothes, fashion or trends. I am totally there with you on that!
But, I figure if I'm going to buy something I want to purchase responsibly and get the most bang for my buck....and I'm just lost. Totally lost about all this fashionista stuff. I'm thankful for ladies who are eager to help, and grateful that I found shoes that I can walk in...without upping my life insurance!

So, to all my friends- I'm wishing you a "nude" Easter!! Ha!

Shine All Your Light,

Cass

Fearington Village

2011-04-18T15:27:00.000-07:00

Yesterday a group of friends and I went to Fearrington Village (pronounced Fair-ington).

We greeted spring with arms wide open and No jackets! ;)

....And Spring greeted us back with a "warm" hello.

Fearrington Village is home of the Belted Galloway cows. More easily remembered as "Oreo's with Milk" (ha! I just made that up!)

And, I suppose- that this is the place that if the cow eats twice it becomes a "Double Stuft Oreo." LOL.

Leave it to me. With all the views, flowers, scenery and tourist around to photograph.....I'm laying on the ground taking pictures of grass. There was a family picnicing near by and I heard the mother say, "Stay near by, Jeremy, there are too many weirdos in this world." I tried to believe that she wasn't referring to the photographer laying on the wet grass, making a strangely contorted face while staring into the sun....shooing away an Oreo. :)

The day was beautiful. To the right of this frame, inside the fence, there was a meadow of yellow flowers...a virtual Calgon moment waiting to be experienced. I didn't keep it waiting.

Shine All Your Light, Cass

A little of This & That

2011-04-14T14:01:00.000-07:00

I realize I'm behind on my 52 Challenge. I'm glad I do it for myself and not for my readers (if there are any!)....So much to catch up on. I had the priviledge of going to the mountains for a photo trip several weeks back. The mountains in spring are gorgeous. We spent an afternoon on the Biltmore Estate grounds....the following pictures are a very small sampling of the pictures I took...but are a few of my favorite ones.

The garden gate looking towards Pisgah National Forest

White Blossoms

Looking toward the Carriage House (now a restaurant)

Lots has been going on. My oldest daughter is in Driver's Ed. She is my child that kept training wheels on her bike until she was 9. Not because she couldn't ride- but because she was so terrified of falling. She makes me nervous because she's so timid. She took her first written test the other day and didn't pass. She had to retake the Road Sign test- so I asked her to bring me her papers and we would study the drivers book and her old test.

I began looking over the written test...and her answers. I must admit I totally laughed out loud....a gut roll of laughter. Scanning her test- her answer beneath the picture of a "No Right Turn" ....underneath it she wrote "No Right Curving".

Jakey and I have been best buds. It's amazing how time changes things; instead of me reading him bedtime stories- He's reading to me each night. He has a new found obcession with kickball. It's truely the little things in life that matter. Today we bought a kickball....and you would have thought I bought the moon.

Sometimes I feel like I can't keep up with him. ;) Probably- cuz I can't!

The Other Stuff

Gabe will be 18 next month- which is probably why little Jakey is finding himself being smothered. Time really does fly...and I'm clinging to the baby I have left. If your a mother I'm sure you understand
I'm excited about an upcoming Mother/Daughter banquet at church.
Gabe is going to camp for a whole week next month-I'm earnestly gathering all the stuff he has to bring
My SEO business is going well! Word of mouth is an awesome way of advertising!
Were going Easter clothes shopping tonight. Oh joy.

Shine all your light- and stay out of the No Curving Zone!!!
Cass

Childhood Friendships Rekindled

2011-04-01T17:41:00.000-07:00

I love books. I especially love children's books. When I see a title I know- I feel like I've just spotted an old friend that I haven't seen in awhile. Out of courtesy, I pick it up and thumb the pages, soak in the pictures and read the stanzas. Out of courtesy-to an old friend because, you see, it would be rude to pass it by without an acknowlegement.
I was at a flea market a few weekends ago and came across two childhood favorites. Two old friends that we're in a dire need of a new home. ;) The first acquaintance was Shel Silverstein's book of odd and quarky poetry "Where The Sidewalk Ends". I quickly flipped to the middle of the book and read the poem about the girl that didn't take the garbage out....but I remembered -in the back of my mind- there was another poem.....something that I could hear being recited within my mind...but couldn't form the words in my mouth.....it was a poem I loved- but couldn't remember. Does that make sense? I knew that if I kept flipping through the book that I would find it. And I did. I smiled big. I remembered.....and I felt like I was in fourth grade again. Yep, I still remember what fourth grade felt like. ;)

Doesn't it just make you want to turn around a hug someone? Go ahead and do it!! I'll still be here...

So, standing there at the flea market I spotted several other "friends" The Giving Tree, A Bargain For Francis, Ms. Suzy, Ramona and Beezus, Peter Hatcher (Fudge's older brother and proud owner of a dog named Turtle!), Hooper Humperdink (who I still feel sorry for!), and I couldn't pass up a chance to say "hello" to Sam Gribley of "My Side of the Mountain". So many friends-so many memories of hiding in my bed-between the covers-reading into the night! Then. Standing in the aisle there....my little heart pitter-pattered. Like it always does when I see a book illustrated by Eloise Wilkin.

I always felt like I knew the little girl in the book....her adventures, her clothing, her questions and stories were always so familiar and real....the pictures that Eloise Wilkin drew were real life.

My heart melts at these drawings-and I'm positive I love them more now than as a child! I always felt the drawings told a much better story than the words in the books. I ~~could~~ can look at the pictures over and over.

I was in an antiques market, a fancy one too... but it was these books that I clung to as if they were treasures. They have sentimental value. I couldn't wait to bring my old friends home and introduce them to my Jake. We laid in bed that night (under the covers with a flashlight!) reading Shel Silverstein's poems until my eyes hurt and I simply couldn't read any more! I can't tell you how much I loved being cuddled under the covers in our half lit "tent" reading goofy nonsense, crazy lines of silliness that roll of your tongue with melodic rhyming beats.

Do you have a favorite childhood storybook? Something that instantly transports you back to a time in your life when you were bathed and in bed before the sun set? A time when your mother still kissed you goodnight... and you still believed in the toothfairy? :) Please share your treasures and memory with me!

Shine All Your Light....(especially at night, under the covers, reading a book with your kiddos!)

Cass

Iheartfaces- Photo Challenge | Sun Flare

2011-03-17T07:01:00.000-07:00

I'm entering this photo in the Iheartfaces photo challenge. I'll let you all know how it goes! :)

Sunshiney Stuff | Regurgitated Vocab | 52 Challenge & Other Stuff

2011-03-15T15:38:00.000-07:00

Sunshiney Stuff |
I spent the morning downloading and arranging a selection of happy songs to my play list. Not just "happy" but SUNSHINE songs. ;) My sunshiney playlist consists of songs that have a sunshiney tempo, light (as in sun), light (as in mood) and happy feeling to them. My list includes some of the following:

Here Comes The Sun
This Little Light of Mine
Big Rock Candy Mountain
Keep On The Sunny Side
Sweet By & By
Soak Up The Sun
Lover's Lane
Shine, Jesus, Shine
You Are My Sunshine
In My Own Backyard
Let's Go Fly A Kite
and many, many more. :)

Speaking of sunshine: The temps this weekend will be spiking to the high 70's!!!! Wowzers! :) I plan on spending a lot of time in the sun this weekend on a photo escapade.

Regurgitation |
So, I realize "regurgitation" isn't the nicest lead-in....but I'm sticking with it. :) We had a special minister from Emmaus Bible College on Sunday morning. He spoke about the tempering of the Holy Ghost. He spoke about stress and burdens.Then, he did one of my favorite things- he broke down the etymology of a word. He told the backstory of in the days of the roman empire how the farmers would take the wheels off of carts and put sharp stones, glass and rocks on the bottom of a cart and drag it over a wheat field. The process of doing this was called tribulare. The act of dragging this cart was like a threshing sledge to the wheat -exposing the seed and allowing the wind to blow the chaff away. Tribulare means "to press". We get the word tribulation from the roman word tribulare. Are you "pressing" yourself into the Kingdom of God?
Let this really sink in: The wheat wasn't being "punished". The process of using the tribulare wasn't to work AGAINST the wheat- it was to cultivate and harvest the potential of the wheat. Like I said, let it really sink in. The minister then used the examples of tempering steel and refining gold. I don't know if I ever really walk away with the concept that the ministers intend to stick with the congregation- but these little nuggets came somersaulting into my heart like and I feel compelled to share ( or regurgitate?) them. :)

52 Challenge | After church on Sunday I had the wonderful opportunity of visiting a horse farm. The lighting was phenomenal. The horses were beautiful. The girls that lived on the farm were great little assistants and models...the bummer is that only HALF of my pictures will transfer from my camera. :( I don't know what to do! I can see the pictures on there but when I go to transfer them it says the file is corrupted. (all join me for a moment of silence, please.)
I love doing silohuettes.

Other Stuff |

My son is going to a Christian homeschooler's summer camp this May. He's over the top excited.
I have signed 2 separate freelance SEO contracts. SEO work has proven a great way to make extra money and I'm slowly growing my business by references and word of mouth
Zumba is my new love <3
I know I say this EVERY year but the time change just REALLY goofs me up.
If you're into photography and love to learn new stuff you REALLY need to check out Photovision
Anybody want to buy some Abeka homeschool books?? Please let me know! :) I ship!

Shine All Your Light,
Cass

Hodge Podge of Stuff & Week 8 of 52 Challenge

2011-03-02T11:13:00.000-08:00

I am positive that I will look back at last Saturday morning and be glad that I did it....at some point. I know there's truth in "No pain- No Gain" and I know that "joy comes in the morning".....but let me tell ya- however joyful the morning was...there were tears during the night!
The cause?

My first kickboxing class. AKA: Bootcamp from Hell.

I discovered a couple of things Saturday morning:
1. I totally get the heeber-jeebers putting my hands in boxing gloves that were worn by others. I mean-like, yuck!
2. My friend Sabrina totally exxagerates. She used the word "FUN" referring to Kickboxing. Gee, maybe I'll get her a gift certificate for a free root canal for her birthday!
3. Fifteen push-ups can cause serious pain right away and excruciating pain 12 hours later.
4. Lifting my right arm the next morning to put on deodroant was virtually impossible

On Saturday night I went to see the Celtic Women: Songs From The Heart in concert. I liked it much more than I anticipated liking it. I'm not big into showmanshippy type of performances....I'm more of a nuts and bolts kind of girl....but, even with that being said- the spastic violin player was entertaining. My favorite part was the bagpipe player's rendition of Amazing Grace. My second fave part was Chloe singing "There Will Be Miracles*" from the Prince of Egype soundtrack. (*may not be the actual title of the song)

Something was said during church on Sunday morning that really resounded within me. Our minister pointed out that next week is Transfiguration Sunday. He spoke briefly about the disciples who beheld Christ in his glory on the mountain- and although he's preaching on it next Sunday- he asked us to search our hearts and ask if we are prepared to see Christ in his glory. It was a very, very brief statement- nothing that he elaborated on- but it got me to thinking. When I got home I looked up some scriptures- and came across 2 Corinthians 3:18. Amazing. The scripture said to me- don't just be prepared to see it and experience it- partake of it....."put it on" BECOME the glory of Christ! To be changed INTO the same image. Wow. Let that one sink in.
I think I would have got more out of Sunday's service had I not been soooo sore- and not sitting there thinking about the fact that I only had deodorant on my left arm and not my right! Ha! Strong enough for a man....but made for a woman....I wish I had SPRAY deodorant yesterday! I was being a girl. *lol*

52 Challenge:
I am challenging myself to shoot in only manual mode. I know for you seasoned photographers it's a no-brainer...but I'm trying to "get there". Here are a few photos for this weeks 52 Challenge. I shot this tulip poplar pod in my friend's yard. I edited the hues and saturation with Topaz Adjust (my fave PS plug-in!) It had rained the night before- so I love the way that Topaz accentuated the colors of the wet picnic table wood and let it "pop" in the picture. By the way- necessity is the mother of invention....I was using jumper cable terminals to clamp the seed pods to the table top. :)

For those of you who follow me on FB- regarding the picture below: this was the picture that made me squeal.

Last Friday my Kiddles and I did a Taylor Swifty-ish photoshoot.

Quip From The Family Scrapbook:
When my 2nd daughter was about four I was admonishing her for saying something mean about someone at our church. I was really trying to drive the point home and said, "Sarah, if you can't say something nice yooooouuuuu....." and I paused waiting her to finish the statement. She piped up just as serious as could be and said, "....just say it real quiet!?!"

And where would people get the silly notion that she's a spitting image of me?

Well, I meant to post this blog on Sunday- but as usual I'm playing catch-up. My week has been good...I can finally lift my arm and put deodorant on.... and my kiddos will be with me this upcoming weekend. I've been listening to a lot of online sermons online lately. This morning I listened to one regarding The Light within- the daystar of God's word and how it shines from us. Of course, this thought greatly encourages me because I think of how many of you have been a great light to me...some of you have been a candle of encouragement in a dark time- or a sweet glow of mercy through tribulations and a warm place to reconcile my heart and life to the spirit of the Lord.

May your days be bright as you Shine All Your Light....
Cass

Catch Up: 52 Week Challenge

2011-02-18T17:16:00.000-08:00

I'm a tad late (imagin' that!) gettting my Photo Challenge pics posted from last few weekends...which explains why I would have never committed to the 365 challenge! I have a month worth of weekends to make up for! So here goes....

I had the opportunity to attend a "Ballerina" themed photography club meetup. The ballerinas came and participated as our models. There were some wonderful shots by other photographers...I'm just there to learn and this is one of the better ones I got.

My Studmuffin! This is Gabe going to his girlfriend Cate's birthday dinner. He was dressed so nicely! I think he's quite a hunk!

This picture is from a church dinner. They celebrated the older gentlemen Howard's 85th birthday-he is surrounded by his children and family members.

On Saturday 2/5 I took Jakey to Home Depot for their monthly Kids Workshop. Did you know that every Home Depot has a free wood project for kids. Did you know that you DON'T HAVE to wake your child up super early, shove food down his throat and drive like a wild maniac to get there at 9 AM on a Saturday? Well, I know that now....they do the craft project from 9-12. It doesn't START at 9 and LAST and until 12. It's a floating craft time. ;) So, now YOU know! See how informative blog reading can be?

In other news:

I've been going to Dave Ramsey's Financial Peace University for the last six weeks. Very enlightening. He has a way of bluntly pointing out my lack of responsibility and accountability with my finances. No more running away and doing trips on the weekends....I have to save, invest and be frugal. What a party pooper! HA! If you have the opportunity to do the 13 week course- I HIGHLY suggest that you do. My boss paid for the class for me as a Christmas present....and the money and time invested will pay off in many, many, many ways!
The last few Sunday's sermons have been a study on the Beautitudes. The study guide is from a book titled, "The Beautitudes From the Backside" by J. Ellsworth Kalas. Very insightful. After learning the political upheaval in the area during that time period and about the Romans taxing and taking over the region, etc, etc....it's very enlightening to hear "Blessed are the poor for theirs is the kingdom of heaven." Putting ourselves in the midst of the political and spiritual climate of the day this sermon must have really raised eyebrows and caused quite a stir! Studying the sermon on the mount from a new perspective over the last few weeks has made the text new and inspiring to me too! ;)
Ooooh. I have big, happy news to share too! I'm going to see The Celtic Women in concert next weekend!
God has been blessing me with several free-lance SEO jobs lately. They ( jobs) keep falling in my lap.
God also blessed me with new tires for my van. Talk about a BLESSING- I was going to have to go tire shopping and these also fell into my lap....good thing I have a big lap!
More big, happy news! I have a very big secret. I can't tell. :) I'm a terrible secret keeper. Just terrible. <----- See, if I was a good secret keeper I wouldn't have even said this! Ha! But someone is having a baby. I can't tell WHO. Or WHERE. But someone is. :)
I have been in a Zumba class for several months now. It's somewhat of a love/hate relationship between Zumna and I. I love to hate it. :D In all seriousness, I've never had sooooo much fun exercising in all of my life. It's great...and oddly enough- I'm hoping to get a smaller lap. I know I'm a corny nerd....but hey, I think it's funny.
Last Friday was my Doodle-Bug, Sarah's 13th birthday. Because it was her Dad's weekend with her we will be celebrating her day tomorrow. We are going to see Gnomeo & Juliette and do some clothes shopping.

Shine All Your Light.... Cass

52 Challenge

2011-01-14T18:13:00.000-08:00

A lot of photographers are doing the 365 challenge (fyi- that means they're posting a new picture each and every day.) I would love to think that I would be up to snuff to do the challenge- but the truth is that I wouldn't be able to make time to post a picture each and every day. So, I will do it my way....I'll post one picture each weekend. Hopefully, like the 365 Challenge- you'll see creative and artistic growth in my photography- and maybe even get to know me better through the year. ;)

And- since this is the 3rd weekend of the year- I will go ahead and post 3 pictures for the past few weekends I've missed....because one of my New Year's Resolutions is to stop procrastinating and always be running behind....so I want to start off "caught up". :)

This picture is from my Uncle Jim's funeral last Friday. My mom comes from a family of 11 brothers and sisters. This pic is of some of her siblings and some of their spouses....it's difficult to get everyone together...and once they ARE together it's twice as hard to get them all in one photo-looking straight-eyes open, heads back...well, you get the picture. :)

Taken 1-09-11 Ice on Zebra grass.

My Uncle's service was very touching. This is of one of the military men presenting the flag to my Aunt Media. I wish I had a better view- but I was quite a ways back and didn't get the flag in the photo nor the fact that the presenter had tears in his eyes....nevertheless, it's still a touching photo.

Until next weekends Challenge....Shine all your light- and snap a pic or two! :)

Cass!

Spazz Begats Spazzes

2011-01-13T08:49:00.000-08:00

So. For Christmas I buy my sweet, feminine, lovely, set-apart daugthers facial masks and cleansers as stocking stuffers. I was envisioning an evening of us girls sitting around doing ped's and facials...listening to classical music and using fancy lotions.
Because....I like to pretend we're normal. Make you think that we're just like everyone else....we do normal things like pop popcorn and drink cocoa on snowy nights at home.

But- in reality- this is how our pseudo cozy night at home goes..... Kiddles (Rebekah) puts on the stress relieving masks and realizes with great delight that it will scare the snot out of her little brother (which it did!)....and one thing led to another....and here is some of the outcome.....

Kiddles thought she looked really creepy.....so she decided to eat her sister.....because creepy people eat their siblings.

And what goes better with a slab of arm than hair and brains???

And....just to not completely creep you out...and so that you don't think we're totally off our rockers- let me leave you with one of those pictures that implies deep meditative thoughts, warm fuzzies and all the wonderful things that normal people impart.... HA!

Yesterday morning- I went out at sunrise to take some pictures of the ice storm....yes, normal people go outside in their PJ's and boots to take pictures of ice- right??? Right?? Say YES- or I'll sic my flesh eating daughter on you! :)

Shine All Your Light!

Cass

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Christmas Wishes....

2010-12-21T14:11:00.000-08:00

I took this pic a few years ago at a local church...

(This is circulating via email....thought I'd share.)

To All My Democrat Friends ~

Please accept with no obligation, implied or explicit, my best wishes for an environmentally conscious, socially responsible, low-stress, non-addictive, gender-neutral celebration of the Winter Solstice Holiday, practiced within the most enjoyable traditions of the religious persuasion of your choice, or secular practices of your choice, with respect for the religious/secular persuasion and/or traditions of others, or their choice not to practice religious or secular traditions at all. I also wish you a fiscally successful, personally fulfilling and medically uncomplicated recognition of the onset of the generally accepted calendar year 2011, but not without due respect for the calendars of choice of other cultures whose contributions to society have helped make America great.

Not to imply that America is necessarily Greater than any other country nor the only America in the Western Hemisphere. Also, this wish is made without regard to the race, creed, color, age, physical ability, religious faith or sexual preference, gender assignment, of the wishes.

To My Republican and Independent Friends ~

Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

Cass

Through The Eyes of A Child

2010-12-13T12:42:00.000-08:00

So, Jakey drew some pictures of me doing what I always do....you know....nothin' much.

This is me sitting on my front porch swing (notice the Christmas light garland over the door!) looking at the tree in the yard that I have yet to get Christmas lights on. The life of a mother is Sooooooooooo relaxing. :)

After I get weary of sitting on my porch swing thinking of all the things I would like to do....I go take a bath. I splash, splash, splash....and just have a great time. No worries here!!

Then- once I get out of the tub...I check my Facebook or blog!! :)

Yep, that's about all I do.....hopefully your life as a mom is just a cushy as mine! And if it is....then it should be no problem to SHINE ALL YOUR LIGHT! :)

-Cass

The Griffin Girls..and Jakey

2010-11-24T17:55:00.000-08:00

So, the kids and I are in Powell Ohio, celebrating Thanksgiving. I have finally had the long awaited meeting with my nephew- Caiden. Caiden is now two and is the "Big Cheese" of the family. :) He's the "big cheese" because #1 he's the star of the show. #2 he's the cutest little star ever #3 No-one has even been a more enthusiastic sayer of "cheese" for pictures!!! :) "Cheeeeeeeeeesssse!" is what he'd say and then he'd inhale real deep and start over! Just a cute, cute, cute little guy!! Loved him to pieces.

My neice Rachel has become a phenomenal dancer- and I so enjoyed seeing her perform her recital solo for us during a sneak peek at the studio the other night.

Today we ventured out into the quaint town of Powell.

The girls and Jake outside of one of the several little boutique's we went into.

Snow flurries flew today!!! Rebekah photoshopped this picture for me- it wasn't snowing when this pic was taken. The girls and Aunt Marshy crossing the street.....

Little man has been floating around in a house of five females....Today he spotted a bag of Star Wars Silly Bands...how could we possibly say no? :) He's saved a few aside for a special friend.

Kiddles wanted this headband in one of the boutiques. It was $34- of course I said, "You can have it baby!!! I'd love to see it on you!!! You have money!" Suddenly she didn't want it as badly.

Caiden and Jakey.

Renaissance Festival: A Huzzah-tical Day!

2010-11-15T10:29:00.000-08:00

My day spent at the Renaissance Festival was huzzah-tical! (<----that's my own word meaning totally off the charts- GREAT!) Do you know how you can tell that I had such a great day?? Because my pictures are less than great. :( I was really disappointed in the pictures once I got them off the card. Oh well. That just means I was more involved in the overall experiences around me than the technical aspects of taking a picture. And all in all- that's a good thing.

I owe a huge amount of gratitude to my mother for making me my renaissance costume. I regret that we never did slow down enough to get Mark to take my picture. It's totally my fault. However, I will get a picture of me in character taken and posted as a very grateful THANK YOU to my mother. ;)

The first shoppe we really slowed down and paid attention to was the glass shop. I was amazed at the detail and exquisite medieval designs the man was making. It was phenomenal to watch.

I saw this guy several times throughout the day. He was like a "Go-Go Gadget" from the middle ages.

I thoroughly enjoyed the patrons as much as I enjoyed the scheduled shows. This lady and her husband were dressed as fairies with their animatronic shoulder friends.

It's hard to tell whats going on here- but this man had a dragon "hat" on his head. The sticks in his hands made the wings of the dragon appear to be "flying". He's ducking down to say hello to this little girl- who understandably was a little skittish to be nodded at by a flying dragon!

Speaking of dragons...this mans costume was incredible! He and his wife had matching leather dragon costumes....complete with tails, feet and painted faces.

This act is called "Barely Balanced" they were awesome. You're looking at three people balancing at each other and the guy on the top is juggling knives. Notice the girl has a bare foot and one blue boot? That's because she's got a broken foot and had undergone surgery on WEDNESDAY. We saw this act on Saturday morning. Talk about dedicated.

The Queens chocolate shop. Oh my. Chocolate fit for royalty....to be sure. A friend and I split a chocolate and caramel cracker with marshmallows and nuts in it. Oh my. About a million HUZZAH's worth of praise for the concoction...adn I dont even like marshmallows or nuts! LOL!

I shot a bow and arrow for the first time. The first four arrows never left my little booth. LOL. I wasn't "getting it" and then.....Wah-lah....lookey there! I shot this guy right in the face! It was fun!!!

The "royal family" attending the jousting match.

The faeries of the realm come out to play during the Renaissance festival. The faeries are beautiful. This faerie named, Twig doesn't speak. But she dances, plays a flute and happily poses for pictures.....

Twigg had just shared some pixie dust with an elderly, disabled man and he was blowing her kisses and they rolled him away.

As we left this mime was entertaining small children.

He wasn't as impressive as the mime my family and I had encountered in San Francisco, but he was quite entertaining to the little children. ;)

I have many more pictures to share- just not the time to post them....

Until I get more time- Shine all your light and have a Huzzah-tical day! :)

Cass

May The Force Be WIth You

2010-11-11T06:28:00.000-08:00

Sometimes, as a mom I have ~~fantasies~~ delusions. We assume that we mean as much to our children as they mean to us; however, this has been proven blatantly 'not so' to me. Not at all. Not that my children don't love me- or need me- not that we don't have a wonderful bond- but something happened last week that really brought the jolting reality home to me that we're on totally different emotional, fuzzy-wuzzy feeling levels.

The lucky thing for us moms is that our kids have a great way of bringing us back to earth. Sometimes with a jolting thunk.

My little guy, Jake had been gone out of town with his dad from Thursday until Tuesday. I was sooooo excited to see all the kids again and was sooooo happy for them to be home. Jake flew up the sidewalk towards me....it warmed my heart- I bent down to scoop him into my arms- but he kept his break neck speed run.... zooming right past me....yelling out a hasty "hey mom!"....storming into the house and down the hallway he's hollering- "where is my light saber?? I missed it soooooooooooo much."

I closed my eyes. And grinned. Let's be real here. At least I know where I stand. Ha! After he found not one but two of his light sabers he slowed down and talked to me...and he did inform he that he loves me MORE than Obi Wan Kenobi. Boy. Do I feel special. I am more loved than the dude in a brown robe that has the ability to channel an imaginary force. Gee.

Okay, I admit, I felt like channelling a little bit of force upside his blonde little head (only for a sec though) but the only thing I forced was a kiss and a welcome home hug.

The other kids have done similiar things in the past...all kids do. It's just that I was here by myself for several very quiet days on end....and they were with their dad, out of state, having loads of fun- so of course he didn't greet me at the door with the same enthusiasm. Of course.

After all the kids being gone like they were- I wish I had "the force". The kiddos brought back about 5 days worth of laundry from their dads....and I stood in the hallway surrounded by open suitcases full of dirty clothes- some of them wet. (don't know why) and I said, "Beam me up, Scotty!" And Jake-looking quite confused said "What's a Scotty?"

I said- the guy from Star Wars, one of Obi Wan's friends. Jake shook his head. He was positive I was wrong. Well, it turns out I had the wrong nerdy, galactic show in mind- Scotty is from Star Trek- not Star Wars.
Oh well. It's not like I would have been picky about WHICH galactic nerd beamed me up from the laundry pile.

Shine all your light! And, may the force be with you.

Cass

In other news- I've been on plenty of adventures of the last month or so- with several more in store! :)

My friends Robin and Dale and I went to VA to ride the Creeper Trail- here are some pictures from the adventure...sometimes in early October.

If God had wanted to be a big secret, He would not have created babbling brooks and whispering pines. ~Robert Brault

There is nothing like walking to get the feel of a country. A fine landscape is like a piece of music; it must be taken at the right tempo. Even a bicycle goes too fast. ~Paul Scott Mowrer, The House of Europe

Zippity-ZOO-Daw...Zippity Day!

2010-10-18T09:09:00.000-07:00

Saturday morning came zipping up on us pretty quick. I was up with my boss and his technician friend working on the phone system in my house until 2 AM. The phone system still isn't fixed- but that's a whole OTHER story...Today- I'm going to share with you about our zoo visit on Saturday.

Gabe was skippity-doo-dawing all day Friday in anticipation of his girlyfriend Catherine (Cate) spending the day with us at the zoo. The whole zoo thing came to pass when Sam asked me if I would take him to the zoo....and one thing leads to another- and soon we have a date picked out and a whole van load of kids (which isn't hard to do when you have 4 of your own!) and we were headed south to the NC state zoo.

We started in Africa- because as Jakey said, "Oh!? Africa??!!? I've never been to Africa before!" and with that realization....our safari began. I'm still not so sure that Jake really understood that we had not time warped to another location...because he kept making statements such as, "The wind is kinda chilly in Africa!" (grin) and "they have Sprite in Africa?? WOW!" It became to tedious to explain...so I didn't.

Elephant. For those of you who missed the National Geographics latest documentary, "Horton Hears A Hoo" :)

The giraffes were fun. We wanted to do the feeding deck- but the giraffes were on their own safari...and missed their lunch feeding. Oh well.

Monkey holding acorns

Through the glass (hence the reflection). He's pretty serious.

I must tell you, "Africa" has some beautiful flowers! Our zoo has wonderful landscaping, exotic plants and flowers and they showcase them so beautifully. I really enjoyed the plants as much as the animals.

What an egg!

Mork & Mindy...I mean, Gabe and Cate

Russian Sage and bee. One of my favorite plants.

Sculture of an African vulture along the elephant loop

Gabe & Catherine....

Catherine is teaching Gabe to "stop and smell the roses" He's so going to kill me for posting this picture!

After our stint in Africa- we took the tram to North America. (which really confused Jake, cuz he thought Africa was FAR, FAR away!) North America was (to be honest) a dud- the polar bear was asleep, the eagles were put up, the foxes were in the den and the bears were sleeping too!

The harbor seals were quite active

I love watching the seals swim and play....very peaceful.

Taking break front to back: Jake, Gabe, Cate, Sarah, Sam & Rebekah

My four

Catherine and Gabe on their way to the tram

The sun started to go down behind the trees as we were leaving the zoo.

We had a long, wonderful day with plenty of sunshine, laughs and fun. I so enjoyed getting to know Cate better and obliging Sam's request to visit the zoo.

Shine all your light!

Cass

More Lolly-Gaggin'

2010-10-14T10:27:00.000-07:00

Our day continued along the Blue Ridge Parkway, after spending an hour or so at Mabry Mills (see previous post) and we headed to Chateau-Morisette. The chateau is a beautiful winery situated along the Blue Ridge Parkway. I don't drink, never have- but I LOVE visiting winery's! Unfortunately, for all the time we were there- I hardly took a single picture! What's up with that? (you may ask) Well, I guess I was so enjoying the shrimp, clam chowder and mountain music that I just never took the time to snap a picture. In my book- that's a good thing. :)

In the midst of enjoying being surrounded by good things- a friend snapped this picture of me sitting and listening to the music.

While the others were doing the wine tasting-I wandered about the grounds of the property.

After the chateau we headed along the Blue Ridge Parkway's scenic stretch of roads and stopped at an overlook. From there we hiked along a trail, stopping to "smell the roses" -pausing to enjoy the circling pattern of a hawk, admiring the vistas, eachothers company and snapping pictures at whatever caught our fancy.

The view at the scenic overlook

Ferns are incredibly audacious specimens, and yet they seem so fragile and dainty. I wish I were like that, growing out beautifully-displaying vivid colors- between a rock and a hard place...

Knock-knock, anyone home?

While we were hiking up the trail, Rick (pictured above) stated that he had done all the hiking he ever planned on doing while he was in the Marines...and therefore he took advantage of the grassy knoll, light breeze and shade. This is how we found him after our excursion. :) It seemed like such a great idea that we all laid down and rested before loading back up in the van.

On our way up the Parkway I was made fun of because everyone was pointing out the beautiful fall colors in a field and I said, "Oooh! Look how pretty the dead tree is!" All of the passengers collectively rolled their eyes and started poking fun at me. However, I stand by my statement- there's something kind of pretty about a bleached out dead tree-standing against a bright blue sky. The contrast. The textures. The shapes.

So, in light of the good fun they all made of me- I'm posting the below picture in memorandum of my strange sense of beauty. :) This isn't the tree I was talking about...and of course the lighting wasn't like this either. ;)

The sun was getting ready to set when we started heading back down the parkway. Our last destination was a stone church we had passed on our way up. The church had a graveyard in the yard- where everyone isntantly piled out and headed towards. (And they say I have a weird sense of beauty???)

We were fortunate enough to be able to go inside....this is the only picture I took of the inside

Roses growing next to a headstone

Phototog buddy, Pete.

I can't help but to be solemn in a graveyard. The dates on headstones showing a life ending before it barely starts reminds us that we are not promised tomorrow. This picture is of a leaf on a gravemarker of an infant. Sad to think the leaf lived longer than a baby so full of promise.

I found this little poem on a website that shows the parralell between the life of man and that of a leaf.

Such is the fate of man

riding on the winds of time

carried by the river of life

he too slowly vanishes

into the realms of unknown

Well, that was the only "heavy" moment of the whole afternoon! We loaded back up and continued on our way home. We stopped in a little community called "Fancy Gap" which is really just a name- nuthin' fancy about it! We had a most enjoyable dinner sitting outside on the patio- chit-chatting, getting to know eachother better and thoroughly enjoying our friendships. I think last Sunday will go down in my memory as one of the very best days of this year.

Whose up for another excursion?

Lolly-Gaggin' Mountain Style: Mabry Mills

2010-10-12T10:10:00.000-07:00

On Sunday morning I woke up early and headed to the mountains with a gaggle of photography friends. Our first stop (on the parkway) of several that day (not counting the potty breaks) was Mabry Mills on the Blue Ridge Parkway. Mabry Mills is one of the most photographed locations in America- and definately one of the best loved stops along the Blue Ridge parkway. The weather was GORGEOUS. I love that we happened to be there on a day that they were doing some demonstrations of life at the mill during the early 1900's.

The lighting inside this building was nil. So, as you can see by the resolution of the picture I have my ISO jacked up pretty high. This is the Blacksmith giving a demonstration of the tools and farming implements the Mabry owner would have forged on his own. Blacksmithing always fascinates me.

Is it just me, or does this look like a painting? I just love this photograph! I want a spinning wheel soooo bad...one of those other fascinations of mine. I spoke with this lady at length about spinning, carding and dying the wools and fibers. One day I will be posting pics of my own wheel. ;)

Pretty

Under the Sluicebox

If you know me you know that I'm not a risk taker. I don't think "out of the box", I cross the street at crosswalks, I don't wear white shoes after Labor Day and I certainly never ignore a fence for the sake of a picture... Well, at least I used to be able to say that. :) I have a friend who is always encouraging me to press the envelope, try a new perspective, different angle, think out of the box...and that's how the above picture came to be. I climbed down beneath the sluice box (yes, the sluice box that was dripping water) and got this picture. It's not a great picture, but I like it for the simple reason that I am seeing the mill from a different angle-from a point of view that I wouldn't have experienced if I stayed on the paved walkway. Ya know? So, the grass isn't always "greener on the otherside" but the view sure is different!

This old car was in the parking lot

This is one of my favorite pictures from the afternoon I like the contrast of colors, the rust, the composition and the crop. You don't have to agree...in fact, Sarah thought it was a pumpkin with a light stuck to the stem.

Another favorite from the day...this is called Queen Anne's Lace

The fall leaves are already vibrant and gorgeous

I took this picture from the van window as we left the parking lot.

Tomorrow, I will try to post more pictures from the next stop of the day- Chateau Morisette.

RULE OF THIRDS For Walnut Cove Basic Photography Students

2010-09-29T08:39:00.000-07:00

I was going to take the time to post my own lesson, but once I came across this this http://www.digital-photography-school.com/rule-of-thirds I realized that your better off reading this and seeing their examples.

Enjoy!

Cass

The Sun, a Star and an Angel

2010-09-02T06:10:00.000-07:00

The kiddos and I were headed home last night-and coming down our road this was our view:

I ran in and got my camera for obvious reasons!

I had to share these...I LOVE the way the light was coming in streams out of the clouds. Just beautiful!

As most of you know, I run a walk in tub company that sells bathtubs to people with limited mobility. So, my non-glam job involves speaking to elderly peeps about their various health ailments all day long...and sometimes I even sell a tub. (grin) This past week I got into one of those really long, drawn out conversations with a lady. We talked about everything from politics and religious views to hobos and varicose veins. (Seriously!)
Anyhow, after over an hour of talk- and me singing her a chorus of an Amy Grant song over the phone (yes, I'm still serious!) she purchased a tub from me.

Small sidenote here:My friend told me that sometimes he doesn't know if he feels more sorry for me who gets on the phone with a home-bound elderly person- or if he feels sorry for the home-bound elderly person who gets on the phone with a home-bound, socially deprived mom of four. :)

At any rate, even after me singing to her (which may be a new sales tactic that I should incorporate into all my sales pitches!) the lady purchased a walk in tub from me and told me who she was. However,I'm not at liberty to say who she was/ I mean IS...but I will say that she's a celebrity whose been in some pretty big films and whose rubbed elbows with some pretty prominent folks...and has even won an Emmy...and who was wonderfully down to earth and very fun to talk to. :) And.....she said that I sounded like Amy Grant. So...she's my new favorite actress! *ha!*

Can you believe that Howie has turned a year old? A whole year old!! He's such an turkey...I mean angel!!! :)

I'm still going to the gym...I'm still making the scales go back down towards zero- and each month I'm inches smaller-so it's worth the effort and expense. But more than that....it's worth the DRIVE to the gym each morning. I admire the rural views and farm settings.Sarah and I were headed there on Tuesday and this is what we saw through the misty morning fog.
I put this photo through a filter program- and the original is actually much prettier- but I'm too lazy to run and get it off the other PC.

I hope everyone has a safe, fun and relaxing Labor Day weekend.

Shine all your Light!!

Cass

Lights, Camera, Action!

2010-08-30T15:30:00.000-07:00

Today I was involved in my first ever TV commercial. The company I work for www.remainactive.com is airing a 30 second commercial for our walk in tubs. Today, we shot the commercial footage and streamlined the script. The commercial is only 30 seconds long, but it's amazing the amount of time that goes into THIRTY SECONDS!!!!

I was taken back this morning when I found out that I was the model for the commercial! They used my feet and hands- and I had to demonstrate getting in and out of the tub, and how easily it closes. Gosh. I wish I would have known before going!! It kinda wigged me out for a little bit. Just got me off guard.

Yesterday afternoon I worked for HOURS on getting the 90 words correct...and today-after shooting the commercial, I realize that I really need to start all over!

I'm working with really nice people, and they've made the whole process fun and easy. I look forward to seeing the results we get from the advertising. :)

In other news:

Gabe is in his dual-enrollment program with the tech college. He's been going for three weeks and is liking it, so far.

The kids and I are planning on going to Georgia this weekend for a campmeeting. I'm happy to see old friends and loved ones.

Jakey starts Kindergarten in ONE WEEK! Sarah starts Jr. High in ONE WEEK!! Rebekah starts High School in ONE WEEK! Wow. Just wow....that's all I can say!

The kids and I took on the project of making home made tomato soup a few weeks ago. Oh my goodness! SO much time and labor and materials....for 3 qts of soup. :(

I have been very slack in my photography. Very slack.

I am in the midst of lots of decision (aren't I always?) and am back to the drawing board on some stuff.

Hopefully, this upcoming trip will be the necessary distraction that I need.

Shine All Your Light- even when you don't feel too sunny! :)

Cass

Life's Crisco Moments

2010-08-04T08:47:00.000-07:00

I'm reading a book called "The Help" by Kathryn Stockett. The story takes place in Jacksonville, Mississippi in 1962.

The story (so far) is told in the words of a black maid who is wise, observant and doesn't miss a lick. This paragraph has stuck out to me. She had a son named Treelore who was in school and doing well. I loved this part of the book.

"Treelore didn't say nothing till he two either. By the time he in third grade, though, he get to talking better than the President a the United States, coming home using words like conjugation and parliamentary. He get in junior high and we play this game where I give him a real simple word and he got to come up with a fancy one like it. I say housecat, he say domesticized feline, I say mixer and he say motorized rotunda. One day I say Crisco. He scratch his head. He just can't believe I done won the game with something simple as Crisco. Came to be a secret joke with us, meaning something you can't dress up no matter how you try. We start calling his daddy Crisco cause you can't fancy up a man done run off on his family. Plus he be the greasiest no-count you ever known."

Yep. In my experience- somethings can't be white-washed or "fancied-up". As a mother, I have been guilty of sugar-coating truth. Truth hurts- and I have learned through the last several years that sometimes you swallow truth in small doses- and process it as you can. Some things are so "crisco" that not even a teaspoon of sugar helps it go down. Things like heartbreak.

Amy Grant has a song that says, "some truth you hold and some you let go"....I used to disagree with the lyrics. I thought- no, you never let go of truth. How naive I was. A few of lifes hard knocks have taught me- Yes, sometimes- you let truth go....you take the good with the bad and essentuate the positive in your life....let the ugly go...cuz truth can be so ugly, so dark, that you just let it go. Send it away from you- as far as the east is from the west. This life has a lot of "crisco scenarios" in it and sometimes you just have to take the junk life brings and put the "crisco" to use by deep-frying the truth-cause anything deep-fried goes down easier and tastes better. And....The Lord's peace works as an antacid- which chases away the heartburn of life's "deep fried crisco moments."

Yesterday in a matter of three hours, my son changed "Career paths" four times. We went from graphic arts to journalism to advertising to engineering. Right now- we're holding steady with engineering.

Today, Jakey chose rocks out of our yard and painted them to reflect the animal that the rock resemebled. I love it.

Rebekah, my violinist, had picked up the guitar. She sits around singing "Ring of Fire" strumming the guitar. Um. What happened to El Shaddai or My Father's Eyes?

I completed an 8 week S.E.O. course yesterday. I made a 93% on the final exam. Now I can tell you what P^2/C, KEI, hashtables and SLS mean. Come on! Really folks, show some intrique! *LOL* I'm realizing that I'm more of a nerd than I want to admit.

I have lost more than 11 inches in all since starting at the gym in May.

Tomorrow we are taking advantage of the "Tax free" shopping days our state is offering. School shopping- here we come.

All of the photos were taken by me at my moms house on Tuesday.

Shine All your light,

Cass

A Day With Howie

2010-07-31T06:51:00.001-07:00

I keep my nephew Howie every Friday. All day.
Friday's are L-O-N-G.

With LOTS OF :)

And discoveries....

And...cool things to inspect...

...and share....

...and many wonderful memories that I will forever cherish....

In My Own Backyard

2010-07-21T15:42:00.000-07:00

One of my all time favorite movies is Disney's "Pollyanna" with Haley Mills. I love the fact that Pollyanna always finds something "good" in all situations by playing the "Glad Game". If you've never watched Pollyanna I highly suggest you see it! Through the last many, many years I've had to give myself the "Pollyanna Lecture" and find the "happy thing" in each circumstance that life has pitched my way. And we all know that life throws us curve balls....curve balls from left field and I've had to be incredibly ( or pathetically?) creative in coming up with something to be glad about. You know those days where you go...."well, er.... I'm glad that I'm.....breathing?" And then I sit and wonder- am I really?? *LOL*

I spend my Tuesday nights alone. It's the kids' night with their Dad. Even after 3 years this is a very hard adjustment for me. I usually plan something for myself on Tuesday's for the simple reason that it keeps me occupied and not as acutely aware of their absence. It just so happened that on Tuesday I didn't have anything to occupy me....or my mind.
I need to interject right here that I am not a "woe is me" person by nature- but the ability to potty without 2 people knocking on the door- REALLY leaves me feeling lonely.Ya know- there are just some things that you don't expect to be able to do!

Well, on Tuesday I made a big dinner- and that was depressing eating it by myself. So, in the midst of my reguarly scheduled Tuesday night "glad game" lecture I prompted myself to be thankful for the small things. This led to another thought process and I began noticing the little "glad things" that I had around me. Then I went out doors with my camera.....and here are a few things that I took pictures of that gave me a reason to be GLAD.

This is MaryJane. She escaped from the cage on Saturday and was missing for two days. I'm sooooo incredibly glad that we found her and she's safely back in her cage.

My girls got the help of a brother/friend from our church to plow, prep and plant a garden in the backyard. Sarah and Rebekah have been completely responsible and diligent about tending the garden. I'm so glad that they are learning the process of growing their own food. This weekend we are hoping to make pickles for the first time! This gives me quite a reason to be glad.

If you've ever visited other countries...then you'll know how easy it is to initiate a good round of the "Glad Game" when you see an American flag hanging from your own front porch.

My butterfly bush had three butterflies flittering around....sunshine, butterflies and flowers....and who WOULDN'T be smiling?

This little wrens nest is in my front flower pot. The Carolina Wrens must be very patriotic little birdies...cuz they nested here (in front of the little flag) and although I have 4 ferns hanging on my front porch- they nested in the only one that had an American flag in it. :)

I took many more pictures that night- each one of them giving me a reason to be grateful, content and satisfied in knowing that God is always there to bring joy in my sadness, light in my darkness and hope in my hopelessness. God has never left me...and sometimes something as silly as a Disney movie about an orphan girl who comforts herself with the Glad game is all I need to remind me of God's outreached arms and comforting embrace.

Shine All Your Light,

Cass

Today Was A Big Day

2010-07-15T18:52:00.000-07:00

Today was my daughter's 14th birthday. We celebrated in a low key sort of 15 people at Chili's way. Rebekah is my built like a ballerina, creative, artsy violinist who is very caring, shy yet outspoken, blonde bundle of giggles.

Guess what! I have a new job. A part-time one. Yes, you read that right. It's the one thing that was on my priority list- only second to a hole in the head! It's the last thing I NEEEEED....but the doors that open up through this job are too wonderful to pass up.
I'm teaching a basics photography class through a technical college. (YAY!) Yes! I'm very excited about it! They want me to put together more classes for later in the year- classes using my own syllabus and plans. I spent the better part of the day being "employed" at the college and getting all my ducks in a row, meeting the staff and brain storming with the adminstrator of continuing education classes. I'm very excited (oh, I already said that!) about the classes and the opportunities.

Anyhow, I'm sleepy....got to do homework for the course I'm TAKING...and prepare for the class I'm TEACHING. :)

Shine All Your Light,
Cass

Girl On The Go

2010-07-12T06:25:00.000-07:00

I have soooo many wonderful adventures to share...and you just have no idea how many times I have sat down to write a blog to share all of these adventures and end up out of time, sidetracked or just plum tired. :)

News from the homefront is: I've recently returned from a 5 day trip to my SIL's in Ohio. I'm amazed at the amount of sleeping I did while there!
I'm pretty much over my detoxing. I've been caffeine free for over a month now. I am no longer experiencing erratic mood swings, irritability or sleepiness. (seriously, for the first three weeks of no caff- I was taking 2 naps a day!)On the bright side-My friends are coming back around too! (LOL)

So, since I'm safe to be in public again-last Saturday I photographed a wedding. I wish I could say that I was all pumped, excited and confident about it...but that was the farthest thing from the truth. I was really nervous and feeling very incompetent. The wedding was for close friends who assured me they would be happy with the outcome. My sister Kim helped me and we even cut Rebekah (my 14 year old) loose with a Canon Rebel to get some candids at the reception.
About half way into the wedding I realized why wedding photographers have 2 cameras. You have to be instantaneous-by the time you change a lens- you've lost the moment. A once in a lifetime moment. Talk about a knot in your stomach!

Jeffrey & Britney got married in a beautiful, rural stone church out in the middle of the boondocks. My dad was the officiating minister.

The ceremony was lovely.

I was really franticly nervous about the lighting in the church. I'm not equipped with studio lighting. For that matter-I can barely operate my SB-600 properly!

There were lot's of smiles and a few tears during the ceremony, happy tears are always welcome.

In Other News:

After the wedding on Saturday- I got up at 6 AM Sunday to go to the largest gathering of Highland Games in the world!The Grandfather Mountain Highland Games are hosted right here in North Carolina( a 2.5 hour drive). The event was wonderful! And fascinating!

The event reminded me of the Renaissance Festival....because you see a little bit of everything from the....wacky and wonderful to the completely weird. LOL.

There were characters of all kinds....even the trees boasted their scot heritage! It seemed to me that there were more people there dressed in kilts and tartans than not. It was really fun- and my friend Dale was just itching to buy a kilt. LOL. If you knew Dale- you'd know WHY this makes me literally roll in laughter, because I could soooo see him walking around the place in a kilt, matching socks and a hat with the little red ball bouncing on top of his head. I can see it in my head...and I do believe that's enough. (grin)

The pipers and drummers were awesome. I love the heritage and history in the parade of bagpipers and drummers in their kilts. It was wonderful!

We watched the highland dancers compete while we sat eating scottish shortbread.

These girls were here in NC all the way from Chicago

This band was incredibly talented and energetic. The lady on the fiddle never missed a lick and I wish I could have recorded the bass player. He was one of the best bass players I've ever heard.

I'm not sure that this guy didn't realize that these were "games"....he was pretty intense!

My nephew graduated highschool last month...and at the same time Jakey graduated preschool. :)

Well, I have many more adventures to share----and more in the making! I hope that everyone is happy and well!

Shine All Your Light,
Cass

Detoxing and Other Self-Inflicted Horrors

2010-06-15T07:27:00.000-07:00

So, it's never been a secret. I have been a caffeine junky for years now. A real junky with the whole eyes that bug and hands that shake without my fix-kind of junky.
I have made feeble attempts to break myself from the addiction- but never got much farther than cutting out a Diet Pepsi in the evenings or slimming back from 12 cups in the morning to 8. About two years ago I cut back on my Starbucks. I did go everyday....and it's about 12 miles away, mind you.

Then I cut back on my afternoon sweet tea earlier this year.....and one thing led to another and I just didn't like the dependency on my "drug" of choice. So, I've gradually (very gradually) started making 1 less cup of coffee in the mornings, started buying fewer sodas and switching to Sprite's (if I go out to eat). Then I realized that it was time to be serious- and stop pussy-footing around the idea of cutting back. I needed to go all the way- or not at all......(the not AT ALL was very tempting- trust me!)

Now. Just for the record. I'm not a nice decaf person. At all. I'm totally irritated and grouchy. I mean- picture worse case scenario....yea, now times that by two.

I'm slowly adjusting. Really. My kiddos reminded me of roaches when the light came on.....when I came out of the office they would all scatter and look for cover.

Anyhow, I'm slowly adjusting to my "unleaded" lifestyle. It's been tough. Lots of headaches. But I can see the light now- and it doesn't give me a splitting headache. :)

I have made a lot of lifestyle changes recently. I'm also dieting- WITH SUCCESS! (that's always a plus!) I've continued my gym membership and go each morning. I can see the results and so do others- which is motivational in its own sense.

In order to get to the gym and back before work requires me getting up earlier. My mom and sister go with me. We leave the house at 7 am each morning so that I can be back to work by 8:45. Do you see a justification to my grumpiness? Waking up earlier, working out, doing without caffeine. I mean my gracious....I think I have a reason to be a little snarky!

Oh, and since I'm talking about self-inflicted pain. Holy moly. I waxed my upper lip for the first time. Actually, my SISTER did the "honors" for me. And good gracious. I spurted tears and stood on my tippy-toes and sucked in and exhaled all at the same time! I mean really- don't laugh. I seriously saw stars. And the funny thing is....it's time to do it again. *LOL* And I will. Oh the things we do in the name of vanity.

So, that's whats been going on with me. Just finding new and improved ways to torture myself everytime I turn around. :) And the funny thing that I just noticed- is that everything (except the decaf thing) my sister is right there with me. I think she may have it out for me?? (LOL) I see a definate pattern here.

An Antebellum Timewarp

2010-05-28T07:14:00.000-07:00

This is a post I've wanted to do for quite sometime...and I figure Memorial Day is as fitting of time, as any, to honor the American Flag. Actually, everyday is a day to honor the heritage, hope and freedom that the American Flag symbolizes...but I'll spare you my patriotic speech. :)

For those of you who know my blog- but not me- I grew up in California (mostly). However, I have lived in the south since 1992. If you've ever visited the south you know that if you have a porch- you have a flag. It may not always be an American flag, it may be one of those designer doo-dawdy flags...and more times than not- a confederate flag. (fyi:On my street of about 12 homes there are two confederate flags flying...that's how common they are....or, maybe it's just that I live in redneckville.)

So for this California girl- the whole southern tradition of flag flying was new and intriquing.
And the porches....oh my, the southern porches are phenomenal. Charleston, Savannah, Wilmington, Atlanta, Richmond and many, many, many small towns inbetween boast of beautiful detailed woodwork, tons of dental-teeth molding, wide-welcoming steps, ornate gates and fences all softened by ferns, begonias and the beckoning creak of a porch swing in motion...and more times than not- a flag dutifully, beautifully snapping in the breeze.

As I walk through the old southern towns with the touristy carriages clopping down cobblestone drives- sometimes it's easy to be era-less...and to be caught up in an antebellum timewarp of southern hospitality and traditions.
All of these pictures were taken in Wilmington last month...I will do another "Porch and Flag Post" for July 4th.

Have a fun and safe weekend! Fly a flag, honor a veteran and above all- Shine All Your Light!!

-Cass

A Photographic Jaunt Through The Last Month

2010-05-25T13:11:00.000-07:00

The last few weeks have been crazy. Crazier than normal. And- if you know me....you know that's pretty, darn crazy! Life comes at you fast...and time passes even quicker- like a vapor in the mist...a weavers shuttle...or a passing train. Just when you think you have things figured out and can focus.... things change and the present reality vanishes into thin air.

This time last month I was headed to Oak Island with my friend Robin for a long weekend. This time-this month- I'm headed into a very full weekend consisting of our annual campmeeting, lots of company, many late nights of church services and VBS.

This picture was taken at Orton Gardens & Plantation in Wilmington, NC during my weekend at the beach. I LOVE wrought iron gates and structures. One of my favorite verses is "I am the way"...some Bible's translate that as "I am the gate". Although I'm a KJV user....I really like that translation. The gateway to life and all that's good.

So- back to our jaunt....

Campmeeting is a big deal around here. The church family has been working non-stop preparing to host our annual revival over Memorial Weekend. This is a picture of Sarah and my mom. Sarah is one of the toughest little workers I know.

While the church family labors every Saturday in preparations for campmeeting, I have disappeared from the work roster and have been taking a portrait class taught by my friend Mark Stewart.

AND- For the record: Honestly, I didn't know the workdays were going to be extended through the whole month of May.... Anyhow, the classes are GREAT on every level. New technics. Fresh critics from creative viewpoints. New friends. New shooting locations. Learning to be bolder in what you shoot- and learning to communicate to the subject in a more concise and professional manner....which my children have informed me I REALLY needed to learn. Apparently, I lacked the "bedside manners" that paying customers would appreciate. *LOL*

I have discovered a fact which I already knew but has now been vindicated. I photograph children better than I do adults. I connect....on their level...if you will.
This young lady was one of our models for one of our classes. She was such an eager and photogenic subject. She listened well and paid attention...and even had her own ideas about how a picture should turn out. I learned that listening to the model is a great way of capturing their personality.

And...then of course...I also learned that if you make funny faces at little ones...don't be surprised when they make them back!!!

Here's a reflection of me on one of my photo jaunts in downtown Wilmington.

The day after I came back from the beach I began a new lifestyle. I started waking up before 7 AM. And I started going to the gym. *It's okay if you just fell out of your chair. I understand. I still can't beleive that CASS the cranky if up before 8 girl is at the gym by 7:15 in the morning and bouncing around.* I would probably see more results (than just dark circles under my eyes) if exercising didn't make me so darn hungry!! I come home at want to eat everything in sight!! My mom is ordering me some protein mix so that should help. I'm feeling sooooo much better though.....until I realize that my son will be 17 on the 29th...and then I realize that the dark circles under my eyes may be a result of age- not the lack of beauty sleep. :( Life does come at us fast. Does Nationwide offer insurance against that? :)

Gosh. There must be something in the air....cuz I never post pictures of myself!! And just to prove me wrong....here's another one of me...at Airlie Gardens

Watch for a special memorial day picture post of American Flags and southern porches.
Shine All Your Light,

Cass

Oh, The Drah-mah.

2010-05-13T11:15:00.001-07:00

This week has been exciting....to say the least.

On Wednesday I lost Jakey. I didn't really LOSE him...I just...temporarily couldn't locate him. ;)

It was just moments after finding him asleep on the floor, under the bar and barstools (which I had passed a zillion times in panic, screaming his name) that my mom called and said that my neice, Lilly, was being taken to the hospital. Lilly's a tiny thing- only 8 years old and her blood sugar levels were above 600. She has been in the hospital since Wednesday and has been diagnosed with Type I Diabetes. She's such a trooper though! Much braver than her Aunt Cass, the trypanophobic spazz.

So, as if that's NOT ENOUGH. On Thursday morning, while my mom is at the hospital with Lilly....my father falls off a roof. A support joist cracked beneath him and he came down with a thump. My nerves just didn't seem they could take much more. I'm so grateful that our lifelong friend, Dale, was there with my dad and was able to assist him. Dad is fine. Lilly is fine and Jake is found. However, my nerves are still a little frayed.

I started going to the gym last week. I've gone steadily now for 2 weeks. I can see where a person could become obcessive about weighing and measuring (not that I have) but all the same- it would be a tempting pleasure to see yourself melt away inch by inch. Instead, I'm only measuring once a month. That way it's one big Oreo milkshake worthy celebration! :)

In addition to starting at the gym I also started a portrait class. So far we've had two classes with two hands-on workshop type of outings. I'm really enjoying the series and meeting new people.

Our annual campmeeting is in two weeks; which means my VBS plans need to be wrapped up and ready to roll. Yikes.

Gabe will be 17 in just 2 or so weeks. :( This mommy doesn't adjust well. Oh the drama that goes on within me. Knowing I have to let go and let him experience things for himself- but the inbred nature of a mother that holds on so fiercly. It's one of those things that your mind knows but your heart can't comprehend.

I've got to get ready to go. Have a blessed weekend. Pictures are soon to come. ;)

Shine All Your Light,
Cass

Like, duh.

2010-04-26T09:31:00.000-07:00

This weekend I learned that the life of a photographer has been highly overrated and glamorized. : ) That's right. I know. Shocking! {rolling eyes} I'm so clueless sometimes. I shared my revelation with a friend and she said, "Like, duh! It's a passion- and any money or fame you earn from it is sheer luck." I dont want fame, but, "like, duh!" money would be nice.
Last weekend I shot a writers festival at the Jamestown library. The event was nice with authors, poetry reading, book signings, demonstrations and lots of chit-chat and intermingling. I was grateful that I was asked to photograph the event, because it made me get out and do something out of the box.I thoroughly enjoyed the morning in the library.

The library is a restored public school house that was built in the early 20th century. The original wood floors are still intact- and put off that warm golden glow when the sun shines through the windows. There's something to be said about being surrounded by tall cases of books- I'm not sure whats to be said about it- but- there's definately something to be said!

I also attended another photoshoot on Tuesday night. It was knock your socks off awesome. I sorta float from one cluster of photographers to the other at these big events- watching, listening and miming what they say to do. (that's how I learn....I soak it in and then try it) I was so inspired after I left that I came home and tried more lighting technics. It's so much easier with a pro standing over your shoulder than by yourself!! :)Our photo group has some awesome guys (and gals) in it that are so willing to demonstrate and teach thier techniques and share their knowledge.....it's like revival to the photogs soul. ;)

On Saturday, I passed an antique store and just had to turn around, and do a second take of the very special sale they had going on. It was a POLLEN SALE...anything with pollen on it was 35% off. :) Basicly, EVERYTHING was on sale!

I will be updating from the road. I'm spending the weekend with friends on Oak Island. I promise lots of fun pics from our weekend. :) We plan to rent bikes, tour a plantation, see some lighthouses and do nothing but eat, read and sleep and snap pictures. Because, like, duh! I need the downtime.

Zeroing It Out

2010-04-13T06:18:00.001-07:00

I attended a photography lesson about light modification a few weeks back. The instructor, Chris Goette said the most important thing to do the night before a photo shoot is to zero out your camera settings. Wipe out the settings so that you're fresh to run the next morning- under new conditions. Yesterday was a rough day, and this morning as I laid in bed thinking about all that transpired I applied Chris' lecture to my heart. Today is a new day, the lighting, focal point and subject matter is different. Yesterday's film has been developed and the image is forever imprinted in history....but today I need a fresh start. I asked the Lord to help me reset my heart and my mind. To zero out all the "default human settings." Reformat my memory card- so to speak. :)
The past weekend was bee-yoo-ti-ful! I was finally able to go take pictures of Jamestown for a photo project. The Jamestown Business Association asked for some pictures of local sites and landscapes...and Sunday afternoon was the day of choice for such a project!

The lake at Jamestown City Park

This small museum is located at the park...behind the dogwood tree is a small cemetary dating back to the Revelutionary War era.

The Dogwoods are in bloom

The entrance into Jamestown at the corner of Guilford and Guilford College Road

An Absence So Great- Jane Kirkpatrick

2010-03-31T05:25:00.000-07:00

I received an email from Waterbrook Press saying that "An Absense So Great" by Jane Kirkpatrick was being released, and would I like to participate in the blog- tour? WOULD I?
The first book in the series, "A Flickering Light," is my all-time favorite novel (at the moment) and therefore the chance to read the follow up to the lifestory of Jessie Graebele was answered with a resounding "YES! YES!YES!"

"An Absense So Great" picks up where "A Flickering Light" left off: Jessie Ann Gaebele is an 18 year old photographer in the early 20th century trying to discover herself, forge a career in photography all the while she's dutifully burying emotional memories that seep from her heart. At the end of the first book Jessie's life was turned upside down by unfortunate romantic longings-and as an act of shame and penance she exiles herself to Milwaukee to grow up, squelch the forbidden feelings she has, and to forge a career in an industry dominated by men.

"An Absense So Great" is chocked full of historical encounters with real-life characters being masterfully woven into the story; glimpses into everday life on the great plains at the turn of the century makes the story come to life.
An Absense So Great chisels out a comfy haven in your heart- where we (the readers) give Jessie the freedom to be herself; a place where we inadvertently realize that we're all "Jessie's." Kirkpatrick makes the relation to the dreams, failures and heartache that Jessie Graeble is running from and toward all at the same time quite personal.

Kirkpatrick manages to engulf the reader in the photographic world of the early 20th century, filling the novel with real pictures and observations from the eye of a photographer.

Reading the story of Jessie Graebele is like looking at a portrait for quite sometime before realizing that the eyes your staring into are your very own.

Shine All Your Light,

Cass

The Vanity of Reflections

2010-03-10T12:55:00.000-08:00

The picture above is one of the shots I was able to capture on Sunday afternoon. I love the reflections on the water; an exact opposite of what's really there. Do you ever feel like life is that way? The world sees a slightly distorted upside down, vantity of what really is. Their world that they put so much stock and emphasis on is but a reflection that will ripple at the least amount of wind or storm. Nothing solid or concrete- just a hazy reflection of the real joy that they could grasp if they were to walk upright with the Lord.
I hope everyone else is experiencing the same wonderful spring-like weather us N. Carolinian's are having! The kiddos and I are building a fire and roasting hotdogs outside for dinner. I'm sure there will be plenty of pictures to come!

Shine All Your Light, Cass

Finding Wings

2010-03-06T06:41:00.000-08:00

A few weeks ago the kiddos and I went to a friends house and spent the day at her beautiful property. The kids had a blast...and so did their mom! Late in the evening I went for a walk along her creek bed and as I looked into the flowing water- I spotted this shell (see above) it reminded me of an angel wing.... I smiled to myself...I had found wings. There are soooo many scriptures pertaining to wings in the Bible. I love the sweet, simple gift from the Lord reminding me that He's my protection and shelter. He's the joy the causes my heart to soar. I picked the shell up out of the water and just held it. It was one of those precious moments when you know that the Lord was quietly whispering words of strength, love and mercy to your heart. Simple as it was- it was truely a divine gift. I went home and pinned the shell to my corkboard- and it was then that I realized all the other "wing" things that had been pinned to my corkboard. I wasn't MEANING to have a "theme" they were just items that were special to me....and I smiled. The Lord knows our hearts better than we do!

May you be richly rewarded by the LORD, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to take refuge. Ruth 2:12

Keep me as the apple of your eye; hide me in the shadow of your wings Psalms 17:8

Because you are my help, I sing in the shadow of your wings Psalms 63:7

Gabe resting at the end of a long day of work and play. He didn't know I was taking the picture.

What a catch!! Our friend has a pond and Jakey was SOOOO excited to catch this "fish" ;)

This is "HAPPY" my friends dog soaking up some of the first warm rays of spring. She's such a sweet dog.

Well, I'm going to go to a photography class today and try to exercise my "wings" :) Whether you're in the place of your life that you need the shelter of his wings, the protecting wings of angels or are spreading your wings to fly....may you shine all your light!

-Cass

A Simple Woman's Daybook Post

2010-02-18T09:51:00.000-08:00

A recent picture I took in Greensboro

I am Thinking: I should be working- not blogging. :)

I am Thankful: For provision....from the most unlikely of sources. God truely works in mysterious ways.

From the Kitchen: I am slowly thumbing through my new cookbook by Ree Drummon called "The Pioneer Woman Cooks" I love the pictures, stories, quotes and ....Oh yes, the recipes! :)

I am Wearing: flannel pants and fleece hoodie...and I'm still cold!

I am Creating: A grocery list. bleck.

I am Going: Grocery shopping. Double bleck.

I am Reading: Marriage on the Rock by Jimmy Evans.

I am Hoping: To go pick up my new ballhead tripod mount tonight!! Oh yay!!!

I am Hearing: Jake humming and grunting as he builds a blanket tent.

Something You May Find ONLY at My House: Lady Templeton our pet tortoise is hibernating in my daughters bedroom with a decorated shell.

From my Journal: A little quip from my last entry, "Words that were like cold water on a dreamers pillow. I feel like a Jane Austen novel coming to life."

From my Heart: My heart is ready to let go and move on with my life- and yet everyday- my mind has to remind my heart that we're moving forward.

From my Bible: I have found such solace in Psalms 144:8 recently.

Like A Herd of Turtles

2010-01-11T19:29:00.000-08:00

My son Gabe worked with my cousin Billy about a week ago, and came back home with a number of new sayings....one of them has really stuck with me (and Gabe). They were supposedly at a stop light behind a granny driver, and Billy said in a wry tone, "And were off! Like a herd of turtles".

That saying kind of sums up my New Year to date. We're off...running-full steam ahead, but there's little distance to measure for all of my sweat, action and effort! I crack up picturing a herd of turtles at the races....but, I'm simple to humor like that. ;)

There's a lot going on; however, I don't think much of it would make for a very interesting blog. Currently, my life can be summed up in short statements and bullet points.

Christmas was delayed by 15 days for my family due to my parents being in Mexico on an extended missions trip. So, we just "had" Christmas on Saturday.

Last night was Rebekah's first violin recital of the year. I wonder if every mother there thought their child was the best? I know this one did. :)

Baby Howie has cut a tooth. Can I even begin to express how much I love him?

Gabe was of the misunderstanding that electives are "free subjects" and were subject to his desire to do them or not. It wasn't anything that a healthy dose of being grounded from EVERYTHING hasn't cured. I'm amazed at the miraculous turn around and to see how GOOD he is at business math/accounting!

Playdoh. It's on my table all day everyday...with rollers, pokers, cutters and squeezy-things.

I have some upcoming photography expeditions on the calendar

I have two Christmas gifts that I've yet to mail off (shocking, right?)

I have my thank you cards spread out across my desk for my bday and cmas gifts...I'm so pathetically behind on everything
My birthday was a week long celebration....family and friends are SOOOO wonderful. I had four "out to eat" birthday dinners!! Two of them with the same two people!! It was just soooo good the first time we did it again!

Shine All Your Light,

Cass

Wrapping It Up

2010-01-01T08:25:00.000-08:00

Being the chronic procrastinator that I am- I'm here on the 1st day of the New Year still wrapping and packaging Christmas presents...celebrating my birthday (which was 12/27) and trying to make an agreement with the IRS for LAST YEARS taxes. *LOL* Isn't it funny how the things that we CAN put off we do....but God forbid if my FB status goes un-updated for more than 24 hours.

I've been reflecting on many things this past week. The last year has been a tremendously hard one for me- the struggles have caused me to grow and spread my wings. I'm feeling like I may be okay for the first time in a very long time.

I don't know what the New Year will hold for me- but I do know this- in spite of my struggles, trials and shortcomings- and no matter how the next year unfolds....God is ALWAYS on time. ;)

Life is More Robust With Children

2009-12-18T14:28:00.001-08:00

My children are gone to Mexico on a missions trip...

My Christmas tree has been standing undecorated and judgementally naked in the corner for 2 weeks. My house is quiet and my washing machine has only done one 1/2 load of clothes all week. I have learned to have sympathy for the lonely senior citizens that call my business and want to keep me on the phone for long periods of time to chat and listen to a friendly voice. I feel like one of those old people today. I would make friends with anyone that would listen.

It's snowing- but the kids aren't here to make it seem as magical and fun. It seems cold and messy.

I decorated the tree last night. Children make that seem worthwhile and fun too. It was lonely doing it alone. I also made 3 dozen cookies...and for once- my cookie jar has stayed full for more than 24 hours! I'm not complaing nor whining....I'm simply observing. Life is so much more "robust" with children. I keep finding myself talking outloud....but no one is here to reply...and mind you they rarely do respond or reply...but it's odd to speak and realize I'm the only one here.

Four children take up 95% of my life. Seriously. Do you know how odd it was to get up for church Sunday morning and be ready a whole hour early!!! LOL. I cooked dinner Monday night and fried FOUR porkchops! It's a habit! I'm sick to death of porkchops! LOL.

The lonliness can be good too....reflections of the past year, the growth and lessons...and the quietness of a house sure makes me appreciate the festive atmosphere that children create.

It seems like with all this spare time I have recently inherited....I would be lightyears ahead on the whole Christmas planning, purchasing and preparations....but, it's the farthest thing from the truth!!! Christmas just isn't Christmas without little ones around.

Life is so much more approachable when you look at things under the influence of childrens chatter and enthusiasm!!! I hope I find the spirit of the season in the next few days and will have everything done and ready and festive for the kids homecoming from the mission field!!!!

I heart faces-Autumn Beauty Photo Challenge

2009-11-17T20:31:00.000-08:00

This weeks photo challenge is Autumn Beauty. I couldn't help but think of the pictures my 13 year old took last week. ;)

This week is going by slow....and I can't wait for the weekend....but I started the week thinking about the weekend. :)The funny thing is- I don't have ANY plans for the weekend! LOL.

Jakey has been full of funny sayings this week. Today he said, "Mommy, if there are bulldogs- are there also buffalo dogs?" ??? Where does he come up with this stuff?

Gabe is still floating around on cloud 9-twitterpated to the gills.

Sarah completed Wilton's Cake Decorating Course #2 today. I'm soooo proud of her!!

Rebekah and I found out that our two fave music artists are doing a joint show next weekend. Amazing! :) Too bad we can't be there.

The Place of Many Bridges

2009-11-13T07:24:00.000-08:00

Jacob at our Autumn Campmeeting's Hallelujah Night bonfire.

Things have been chugging along here at a nice pace.I feel like I'm standing in a meadow of many bridges....each bridge leading to another chapter of my life...one that I can put off by not crossing that bridge. I may just stand in this pleasant (though static) meadow for awhile. The bridges lead to change...and right now, I'm just standing...content to be emotionally stagnant.

Our Autumn Campmeeting was one of the best in several years, in my opinion. Our Hallelujah Night (during campmeeting) was great. The kids had a lot of wholesome, old fashioned fun.

Jakey poses in his "Soldier King" costume. Not many of the children dress up at our Hallelujah Night, but Jakey wanted the costume so much...because it had a sword! :)

Here's a picture of my Dad in his shop helping Jacob (not my Jake- another Jacob) and the younger children work on their derby cars.

Jacob in all of his dirty-face glory beams about winning 3rd place in the derby race.

Aside from church- I live under a rock. However, my sheltered little domicile has had a lot of activity under it lately. My son has a girlie friend. He walks around in a twitterpated daze. He has a perpetual cheezy grin pasted across his face. He'll be sweeping the kitchen with a grin...and I know it has nothing to do with my choice of broom doing a superb job. Gabe informed me through his love-glazed eyes looking through rose colored glasses that I've NEVER felt the way he feels. I just smile at him....and secretly wonder if I'll ever feel that way again? I wonder if that bridge even exists.

Speaking of being in love: Today is Friday, which means that I have baby Howie. His weekly visit is the perfect ending to my work week. He smiles at my goofiness...my funny, squeaky words like " Howie-Zowie- Aunty Cass' baby-ka-schmammy." He understands me...and we grin foolishly at eachother. He's a bundle of happy snuggles that smiles in his sleep. Who could resist such pure love?

Jakey went to school with the big kids today. My mom is the teacher of our small private church school and he wanted to do preschool with 'Momert' (the Grandkids call her Momert...long story). Of course, my mother- the most giving, tireless, wonder woman of the world said- SURE! What's another child to look after and teach?
So, Jakey went to school- with a packed lunch and his little alphalfa style cowlick sprayed down. It was a test run for next year....and yet, I still got all teary eyed. I'm glad Howie was here....because I think I would have outright cried. I can wait for next fall. I don't want to cross that bridge either.

Autumn is quickly leading into winter. I have my favorite cookbook, "The Pioneer Woman's Winter Cookbook" out on the counter...tabbed with favorite recipes to make.I also have a Christmas list growing by the day of things to start purchasing.

THis weekends plans include going with my friends Dale and Robin to Hill Billy Hideaway. Its a little country restaurant that serves "Homestyle Southern" foods and has country and bluegrass style gospel singing and comedy on Saturday nights. It's my grandpa's favorite- and I have a feeling I'm going to love it too. I really can't wait.
On Sunday we're having an all out birthday bash at my sisters. We're celebrating FIVE birhtdays at once with a birthday dinner of Martha Stewart propotions!

I've made a deal with one of the men in our church to come and blow all the leaves off my yard (way tooooo many to rake!) in exchange for a homemade lasagna. :) Bartering is what it's all about these days!

My KAH girls had their award ceremony last Friday night and performed a skit acted out directly from the text of Proverbs 31. They were awesome....very well done...very creative! I can't wait to share the video! The girls have completed the Proverbs 31 badge...which was a whopper of a project! It took us over a year!

Pray for us. My children will be going to Mexico in December. I have some big decisions that have been put into motion, and some bridges that are better off left uncrossed.

Shine all your light,
Cass

That's Life

2009-10-20T18:27:00.001-07:00

I had a rough day. Not in a physically challenging kind of way.
I was determined that I was going to chill out this evening. I made a good dinner, we dined on the back deck (doesn't dined sound better than "ate"?)...just the kiddos and I.
As we "dined" on our dinner I was calculating the time, energy, and money that it took to plant our small crop of greenbeans late this summer. We've had one dinner from the small plot of ground. By my calculations- our small pan of green beans tonight was worth about $27. Ha! And ya know what? They were good! But not $27 good. Next year- we'll expand our garden. Do bulk
So, after dinner, our $27 side of greenbeans and clean up...I was determined to sit back and relax. I went into the bathroom to run my bathwater. As I started the jacuzzi jets-I noticed how dirty the toiletbowl was. How could i possibly sit back and relax with that???
Soon after, I climbed into the bubbling inferno of hydrojets with my Southern Living magazine. I laid back and closed my eyes. I tossed the magazine over the side and decided to just veg. After a minute or so I opened my eyes. WHAT IN THE WORLD?? I was surrounded with black goopy crud all in the tub. DISGUSTING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I drained. Rinsed. Rinsed again. First the toilet and now THIS!
After an hour I had done three cleansing cycles on the jacuzzi...by then I was tooo tired to take a relaxing bath- and besides after filling the tub up that many times there wasn't any hot water left AND Jakey was insistent that it was past his bedtime.

I laugh now. I laugh to keep from crying from sheer exhaustion and frustration. All I can do is chalk it up as one of those things and say THATS LIFE! Btw- if you want to know HOW to clean your jacuzzi jets....here's the mixture:
½ cup of bleach, 2 tablespoons of diluted Cascade dishwasher granules in a little bit of water. Fill the tub above the jets Start jet massage and let run for approx. 10 minutes. Turn off and let stand for about 10 minutes. Empty tub. Let stand for another 10 minutes Fill the tub above the jets with fresh water Start jets for about 5 minutes Stop the jets and empty the tub Repeat this procedure at least twice initially and maintain a regular maintenance schedule for optimum performance of your jetted unit.

I is Me.

2009-10-07T11:59:00.001-07:00

About a year ago I was going to have a small sign made for my kitchen that said, "Country Girl at Heart". My sister asked Who is that for?? (lol) She laughed when I told her it was me. She wasn't being mean...she just looked at me like my body was possessed by another being.

Then- I post on FB that I would like to build a chicken coop and have chickens. BOTH of my sisters chime in regarding how this notion seems so UNLIKE me.

So, I'll keep my secret desire for a pet lamb to myself for awhile. ;)

Yes, I admit...you are more likely to come to my house and find me working on a blog, downloading a new texture filter for Photoshop or scrolling through my phone at FB updates. LOL. However- that doesn't reallllly define me. Not really. Right? Just because that's what I do- doesn't meant that's who I am? Okay. That wasn't a good argument. (sigh)

I've had lots of changes in my life. Most recently, I've moved farther into the country and although I am living squarely between two houses-both within shouting distance.. my property goes wayyyyyyyy back....like to my sisters house. (grin)

My little "trial gardening" stint has gone well....and next Spring I plan on enlarging the plot from 3 little rows to 3 BIG rows. :) I'm pacing myself.

So, although you see me as a blogging geek- wearing Lisa Loeb glasses, fully integrated and wireless, app loving, i-pod wearing girl...in my heart I love red rainboots...and potting sheds and the idea of having a chicken coop...with a window box. It may not last long....but at least I'll know that I tried. :)

Back to the case inpoint: I am me. I may not fit in a box- (in fact, I know I don't-cuz, Jakey and I were playing hide and seek...and....well, that's another blog) and I may not subscribe to Farmer's Almanac- and I don't fore-see me growing acre's of organic cotton or becoming a working farm hand ...
There's that little part of me that wants an adventure outside of the office... to dig, watch things grow and maybe- just maybe one day get outside and collect eggs in the wee morning hours...right after I had a grande caffe' vanilla light latte and have updated my Facebook status. :)

From The Simple Woman's Daybook

2009-09-29T14:33:00.001-07:00

FOR TODAY...September 29th from Casandra's Daybook Journal

Outside my open window...blue sky, blustery winds...Jacob said that the trees were "hyper!"

I am thinking...I need to figure out WHY I keep waking up with kinks and cricks in my neck and shoulders.

I am thankful for...my stay at home job.

I am wearing...my black sweater (first time this year!), a burgundy tanktop and my favorite white lounge/ pj pants with burgundy hearts on them. :)

I am remembering...To thaw out dinner.

I am going...to take Jakey on a hayride at the pumpkin patch this Saturday!

I am reading...I FINALLY finished A Flickering Light by Jane Kirkpatrick last night. :) The story of her grandmother's life as a photographer in the early 1900's.

I am trusting...That God will direct my steps....a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path.

On my mind...I.R.S.

From the learning rooms...Preschool with Jakey- we're learning about Mexico. I'm also planning our KAH class for Friday. We're learning calligraphy and about "Abiding In the Vine".

Noticing that...my daughters are maturing faster than mommy's ready for them to.

Pondering these words..."
Photographs that make one take in a breath while being drawn into the image. It is what I want in my life too, those moments of sharp breathing, perfect clarity, fully drawn in." from the book A Flickering Light.
From the kitchen...On the menu tonight: baked chicken breast and rice casserole, yeast rolls and salad.

Around the house...aerating the yard and planting new grass seed

One of my favorite things~taking pictures that freeze a moment- or lead us to the next.

From my picture journal...

A picture I took of Baby Howie earlier this week....

Girl's Day Out

2009-09-28T06:38:00.000-07:00

Yesterday, my neice, sister, "utter" sister Christi, my girls and I all went to the premier of the Mandie & The Secret Tunnel movie in Greensboro. If you have daughters then you're probably familiar with the Mandie books.

The Christian stories are wholesome, adventuress and exciting...a mix between The American Girl series, Little House on the Prairie and the TV series, CHRISTI, based on the story by Catherine Marshall. I like having something positive to give my girls to read. Mandie & The Secret Tunnell was filmed in NC, and told the story of a small band of Cherokee indians who were saved from the Trail of Tears in the 1800's. The indians integrated with the white family that saved them. The movie is based on the search for a family will- which turns into unraveling a mystery that is intwined with many years of half- truths, hidden alcoves and family secrets.
Although the movie was a tad confusing in the beginning with the director trying to set the plot and characters....I was a little lost betweeen the switching timelines and characters; however, the storyline quickly gained momentum and interest and was well worth the experience.

After the screening, the cast was on hand for a friendly "Meet & Greet" signing autographs and taking photographs with young girls. There are more Meet & Greets happening around the country- and if there isn't one near you- the DVD is available online for only $15. :)

The Contrariness of Time

2009-09-03T12:34:00.000-07:00

All summer I've had a series of countdowns: moving day, baby shower, Rob's wedding, the baby's birth, company coming and school starting back..... counting down- mentally checking off months, weeks and events that lead up to "moment".

It's been one of those summers of HURRY UP & WAIT!

Now, for all of Father Time's dilly-dallying all summer- he sure has hit high gear with the turn on September's calendar month.
This week alone (and it's only the 3rd!) we've had a baby born, school start, company will be here tomorrow and Spanish lessons start tomorrow too! It's been NUTS.

Why can't events pace themselves throughout the year? Why does everything sit back and jump on ya all at once?

Cougars and Other Things

2009-08-27T06:52:00.000-07:00

The engagement and wedding to Mr. Pilot is called off. It's okay. It's all for the good. So, I'm looking for a newer model. Hmmmm....does that make me a cougar? (lol)

The good news is my credit union has a "dating service" where they'll find the best match for me and just let me pick from the ones they find me. :) If not- I'm okay with what I've got. It's good, comfortable and decent. And...mine. ;)

The upcoming week is going to be nuts. Nuts-I tell ya!

Saturday is my yard sale. I have 3 people coming over to sale stuff with me. :) I plan to soak up some rays at the same time- because I'm as white as a pale albino. Seriously, my brother asked me if I live in a dungeon. Sad. ;(

Pete fixed my fountain for me. I'm grateful. ;)

I'm Engaged To A Pilot

2009-08-23T18:31:00.000-07:00

On Saturday I stopped in at Vann York Honda to look at a Honda Pilot that I had seen online. I ended up bringing the Pilot home over the weekend. :) I am "engaged" to the Pilot- but not officially married to it! (ha!)
Tomorrow afternoon, if the interest rate and pricing are agreeable I will enter into a binding agreement with my Pilot that will marry me to a monthly payment. (grin)

Today was a beautiful day. I woke up early and repotted some plants, planted some mums and sat on the back with Lady Templeton drinking coffee and listening to the birds. A cathedral of trees and a choir of nature. ;)

The girls and I, with Drea's help, planted three rows of late blooming vegetables this evening. I am looking forward to the rewards of our labors. ;)

TOUCHDOWN

2009-08-20T14:04:00.000-07:00

Jakey and I are leaving to dinner. We have been home ALLLLL week and need to look at something other than these walls. :)

Volker text me earlier this afternoon to let me know he has touched down in NYC. :) He should be on his way to San Fransciso by now. So excited.

Countdown.

2009-08-19T20:00:00.000-07:00

This morning Volker leaves for Frankfurt. He's flying to NY in route to SF and then back to NY. From NY he will drive to PA, DC and many other in between locations on his way to NC.

Kerri will arrive here on 9/4-and Volker will roll in sometime on the 5th.

I feel like our adventure begins when Volki's wheels take off from German soil. I can't wait to hear of all his adventures, discoveries and experiences in the USA.

Pray for my friends travel safety! :)

Gatepost Watermark!

2009-08-18T09:57:00.000-07:00

I'm so excited. I've got my first REAL photo shoot...someone who ASKED ME to do their photos instead of me asking THEM. :)
Also, since I've started posted pictures online I'm having a watermark made for my photographs which will be on all photos.

My portrait business will be Gatepost Portraits- so my watermark is going to be an iron gate. I'm really excited. :) I feel like I'm finally making headway in obtaining a dream. :)

Deep Waters

2009-08-12T20:31:00.000-07:00

Have you ever heard the saying, "Water, water everywhere, but not a drop to drink?"
I happened to have watched a televangelist the other day. I won't name names, mainly because I don't remember it, but also because I'd never want to offend a little one who may find nourishment from the milk of the word that's said from these people.
However, I was watching this person 'minister' and my heart was grieved. Sincerely grieved....not in a fault-finding, judgemental way, but a sincere, heartfelt sorrow. To think that this person is on TV presenting their ministry as a well-spring of living water....and yet when you really watch and listen and judge their spirit- you find a dried up well. This person is on TV because they've found a local niche on a cheap station, late at night where they can sell their books, crosses and god-forbid...the holy water colon cleansers that they've marketed in the name of God to old ladies with insomnia....and clogged colons.
I'm pretty sure that at that moment I felt the same stirring that Jesus must have felt when he turned over tables.

I heard someone tell the story of visiting an orphanage in Uguanda to see their sponsored child. He toured the orphanage and played games outside with all the children until dinner time. The dinner bell rang. They lined up at a pump and washed their hands in hot, brown water. He followed the chidlren inside and sat down at the table with all the children. When he saw the cup he was expected to drink from he was sickened. He said he was served a dirty glass, full of the same hot, dirty water they had washed up in. He looked up at the little children seated around the table- and they drank willingly and greedily- without thought.
It was all they knew. It's the only water they ever had.
Some of our American churches have become that way. They drink greedily from the half dripping, luke-warm, rusty pumps behind their pulpit. The young Christian has a sincere desire to grow in the Lord, drinking deep because they don't know anything different.
I was speaking to a friend about their new youth group at her church....the new youth leader was newly imported from a big city church, with all kinds of new plans,game nights, music concerts to attend and even christened the youth group with a new trendy name and mass produced cool T-shirts. She used the term "innovative outreach".
But I HAD to ask it......Are we REALLY giving our youth anything PROFITABLE (other than a cool t-shirt) when all we do is get them together for Wii Sports tournaments on the churches big screen??? For heaven sakes, the Boy Scouts offer better than that! At least they can read a compass! Is this what our youth ministries have turned into?? Are we equipping them for the ministry? Are we imparting to our youth a sincerity to grow in the grace and knowledge of God? Why aren't our kids WORKING in the ministry? Why aren't our kids BURNING with a desire to hit the streets with tracts and Bible books? Why are they blending so well with the WORLD? Why does a youth prayer meeting sound so far in left field? Many Youth groups have turned into a collective "half in-half out" haven of luke-warm activities to ease parents minds, and give the kids an outlet for social interaction with a set of "church approved friends". We need to invest into our children's spiritual future. Don't just assume that because their playing games with kids in the same church that you attend that thier getting spirtually fed. Our youth are wandering far out to sea....far from the shore....there's water, water everywhere but not a drop to drink.

Sometimes, I feel like that man did sitting at the long dinner table in Uganda. Looking at the fellow diners with tears in his eyes. He said that at that moment- with all his heart, with all of his soul more than anything in the world he wanted to put in a fresh, deeeeep well that would pump cold, cold water into the hands of those children.
I want to be a well spring. I want to be a gushing river of fresh, clean untainted water.
Not a hole in the ground that fills up after a rain. You know, there's those kind of Christians too. The kind that are reflectors- the kind that go to revival meetings and will fill up and be gushy moist for a few days....but then a little exposure to the heat of life and they dry out. I don't want to be like that...I want the water to be from deep within...to come FORTH.
Psalms 23 says that he will lead us beside still waters.....I want to be one of those resting places for young Christians, for seeking souls and lost sheep that have unwittingly been separated from the flock....A place to find rest, peace and cold, cold water.A well that when looked into will reflect the face of the Savior....

Shine All Your Light,
Cass

Behind The Eyes

2009-08-07T19:57:00.000-07:00

Doesn't this just crack you up?

Tomorrow is my second to last photography class.

Sunday is Howie's baby shower

Exactly 4 weeks until vacation. YIPPPPEEE!

Exactly 3 weeks until school starts back

Mike & Christi got here tonight. Their going straight to their new house and staying there for the first time tonight.

My heart breaks for someone and I can't show it. :( Too complicated.

I finally hung the pictures in my room today! (FINALLY)

I've written half a song- titled "You Got Me Feelin' Like I Do"

I know post for 4 Twitter accounts, 3 Facebook's and 3 Xanga's....it's no WONDER I never have anything to say!

A Hidden Retreat

2009-08-03T08:24:00.000-07:00

On Sunday evening I discovered an awesome find. A dirt path that leads down to a dilapatated tobacco barn, a pond and an open meadow.....the glowing sunset lit up the meadow and reflected golden light off the tops of trees and if the ground hadn't have been so saturated I think I would have just sat there until Jesus comes back. The amazing thing is that this treasure- this retreat from all that's modern- is on the very same road that I live on.... to think...I ride my bike there any afternoon....and watch the sun set on the old barn day after day.....

Aging In Place: Bathroom Safety

2009-07-21T12:09:00.000-07:00

Aging In Place: Bathroom SafetyJuly 21st, 2009
With the housing market being as it is many Americans are choosing to age in place instead of moving to retirement communities. As a result, there are many new safety products, community services and options for seniors citizens who choose to remain at home during retirement and beyond.
The key factor to “Aging in Place” is to be able to plan ahead for service needs, or mobility issues that you may not be facing now.
A walkin bathtub may seem like a luxury now, but in the future it very well may be a necessity. A walk in tub effectively reduces many risks associated with bathing. The number one concern of many seniors is the fear of stepping over the side of the tub- and with a step in bathtub you’ve eliminated the hazard of losing your balance while stepping into the tub.Slipping in the bathroom causes serious injuries to thousands of senior citizens annually. Although our Hydro-Elite Series has a textured floor in the tub- you want to make sure that you have well placed, rubber backed safety mats on all slippery floor surfaces.There are many tips and safety procedures that you can followed to ensure your or a loved ones safety. For more tips check out our blog archives under keyword AGING IN PLACE

A Tale of Pigtails & Obedience

2009-07-15T07:27:00.000-07:00

I think I'm starting to feel at home in our new house. For the most part things are put where they go, boxes have been broke down and stacked up.Family pictures line the hallway and I can walk through the house in the dark without slamming my shins into stuff. I tend to wake up earlier than normal lately.... early yesterday morning before church when I was sitting in the dark hours of the morning talking with the Lord. I sat pondering in amazement at His intricate detailing and how He's masterfully knitted our lives together with occurences, events, people, heart-to-heart talks, snot cries- relocations, relationships and even heartbreak. All of theses events in our lives have been part of a very large plan not just for our lives, but the lives of others...and ultimately for the Kingdom of God! ( we tend to get really near sighted sometimes in our spiritual walk and start thinking thinking in terms of HERE & NOW...but the Kingdom of God is eternal- God is working on a much larger scale than our "home" or "community" or "country"...his measuring rod and plans aren't for here and now necessarily- but how will it effect time and eternity?)

Thinking in these terms-(kind of mind boggeling if you really let your mind go in that direction....) I started reflecting on events and circumstances in my life...and it struck me how truely mysterious God's Ways are! How a seemingly "here and now" insignificant gesture can change lives forever....and how that small gesture has a boomerang effect on the lives around it...and soon the "butterfly effect" is in full swing and lives are changed around the world over a small, seemingly insignificant kindness.

Sitting in my living room yesterday morning with my Bible in my lap- I was remembering when I was about four years old....Jakey's age. I obviously don't remember all the details of the circumstances- but this old lady knitted me two yellow and creme colored ponytail ties. I loved them- and she told me that they were to wear to church. We didn't go to church. (looking back I'm sure she realized that!) She was a nice old lady (I was pretty shy as a little girl) and I remember really liking her. I don't know how my Dad knew her and I don't know what the relationship was between my parents and this older lady- but next thing I remember is this old ladystarted picking me up in a big old van to go to Sunday School. Faithfully.

I don't know if she lived next door or three towns away- but the old lady picked me up (and sometimes my sister too...(if I remember right) and we went to an old Assembly of God church to sing upstairs with the "big people" ( I specifically remember asking to sit on the front row close to the piano player so that I could watch her hands move across the long keys) and then go down steep white stairs into the basement for Sunday School. I remember learning the song "Peter, James and John Went Fishing" and I remember really liking the flannel story board images.

Every week I would bring home papers from Sunday School and my mom would read the simple stories of Jesus, his disciples and the simplicity of salvation. It wasn't long before the old lady wasn't picking me up....my parents were driving me to church....as a family. Of course, there are many other details and chapters to this story....but the point that I want to make is this......

She used her talent of making things as unto the Lord- as a tool to reach out to a little girl and a young family. She was faithful in the SMALL THINGS. Ponytail holders don't rank up there too high in the greater scheme of things.....but the moral of the story is that she was obedient. She reached out and was faithful in the small things- she picked up a visitor for Sunday School-she brought her home with stories and coloring pages. She was kind. She was willing.She was faithful.

So I sat there yesterday morning pondering the ladies faithfulness (I don't even remember her name!) 30 years ago to the Lord...and I can't help but picture her picking out some leftover yarn from her basket- begin knitting those ponytail holders for a little girl that she hardly knew...and I refelected (with teary eyes) the effects of her kindness all these years later...To imagine that my Dad is a minister in NC- he's been around the world preaching the gospel, he's been in the "spiritual trenches" in battle for the sake of the Lord, he's been used of God to perform miracles, to build churches, to build back lives that the devil has tried to destroy...all of this..... the result of that ladies obedience.

What about the differences my mother has made? What about the children that have been in my mothers Sunday School classes? Consider all the women that my mother has counselled over the years...the children she's had sitting at her desk in our private school? The people in foreign countries that have received tracts, food, clothing and medication because of my mothers devotion to the ministry? All because of ponytail ribbons?

Sitting on that front row watching the piano player put a desire in a little girls heart to learn the piano...all these years later, I am our churches pianist. Do you see the effects you can have just by simply being in church and doing YOUR PART?

That ladies willingness to plant a tiny seed produced an orchard of fruit bearing trees for the Kingdom of God!

Don't despise the small things. Don't ever get weary in well doing.

Be Faithful. Be Obedient. Make a difference.

Shine All Your Light,
Cass

Photography

2009-07-10T09:45:00.000-07:00

Tomorrow morning I start a five week photography class. I'm really excited to participate and learn!!
Many times I see a good shot but don't know how to go about "capturing" the shot....the lighting the ambiance of the moment. I hope this class educates me and expands my horizons. :)

fireworks.

2009-07-05T20:24:00.000-07:00

Why does everyone post pictures of fireworks on their facebook walls?? Unless their really fantastic photos- people just really aren't interested in seeing blurry images of fireworks. If you've seen one "fireworks" photo you've seen them all- ya know? I'd much rather see pictures from your picnics- your kids doing sparklers and 3 leg races- eating watermelon and sitting in lawnchairs waiting for the fireworks to start. :) That's just my 2 cents. :)

The Encore

2009-06-22T13:35:00.001-07:00

The Encore Walk In Tub
June 22nd, 2009 Remain Active Walk In Tubs introduced The Encore to the Hydro-Elite Series in 2007. The Encore is known as our “celebritry of all walk in tubs” due to it’s dual-massage options. Featuring 22 injected, heated air jets, 6 fully adjustable water jets and an inline heater you can see why The Encore gets our customers standing ovation after each “performance”!

The Encore is specially priced for July 4th at only $4999- this price includes faucets, handheld shower head freight and extension kit.

For more information The ENCORE or The Hydro-Elite Series please call our office at 1-800-397-1123.

2009-06-22T12:18:00.000-07:00

When I had my first child 16 years ago my mother was amazed at the technology available to new mothers...everything from ultrasounds, battery operated swings,dripless sippy cups to premedicated nursing pads.

Well, I now know my mother felt at the advancements....12 years later I had my fourth child and walked down the baby store aisles in amazement at the progression of technology in such a short order of time; Bedside video monitors, battery operated chewy toys and then there was the new "womb monitor" which I was so excited to try.
I loved the idea of being able to put the headphones on my older children and let them hear and feel the baby. The children anticipated hearing hic-cups, kicks, movements and a heartbeat....unfortunately all we ever heard were odd swishy noises....never got to hear his heartbeat (even at full term)...it was a little disappointing.
The PRO is that the kids had great fun putting the monitors on their own stomachs and even ingeniosly discovered that you could put the monitor on the wall and hear conversations through the walls.....
The monitors were fun to have- but not for the purpose we had intended. :)

Challenge America

2009-06-08T10:50:00.001-07:00

Remain Active Walk In Tubs works with the VA hospital to assist veterans to help them remain active, safe and mobile. Remain Active is proud to be able to provide our veterans with products that help them rehabilitate and lead a fulfilling and active life!
From time to time we feature other organizations and programs that share the same vision and goals as Remain Active and who are doing their part to assist, service or sponsor programs that promote active lifestyle amongst veterans or seniors.

This week we are featuring Challenge America a charity that works with communities across America to provide occupational and recreational programs for returning wounded soldiers.
Challenge America grew from a yearly program called Challenge Aspen that assists people with disabilities. Challenge Aspen was so sucessful and fulfilling-and the need for assistance so great that a spinoff program assisting our veterans was developed. Tonight is the campaigns first money raising concert at the Kennedy Center for performing arts. Hosted by country music legend, Vince Gill and his wife Amy Grant. The concert will raise money to launch the new campaign to give back to our soldiers who have given so much. The concerts other guest stars include Alison Kraus and Union Station, American Idol's Melinda Doolittle, Michael MacDonald and many others.
"There will be lots of music and laughter. The evening will bond us together and make us feel what I feel every time I'm in Washington. We are still what George Washington proclaimed us to be: we are the great experiment. We are constantly inventing who we are, and the world is watching. We've got to reinvent how we care for our soldiers because they are coming back with lives that need to be led in very vital ways." Amy Grant

"I'm excited about getting to share what we believe in so deeply. We want to make an impact on the individuals that have given to us in unimaginable ways. Challenge America 2009 is our way of honoring the men and women who truly are heroes." Vince Gill

2009-06-05T12:36:00.000-07:00

Salem Mobility Joins Our Network of Dealers
June 5th, 2009

Remain Active Walk In Tubs is pleased to welcome Salem Mobility to our network of dealers. Salem Mobility is North Carolina’s largest provider of electric wheelchairs, scooters, diabetic shoes, hospital beds and other geriatric aids. Remain Active is excited about being able to reach a wider market and meet more needs in the Carolinas!
Salem Mobility has recently moved to a larger showroom from where they are able to service customers across North and South Carolina.
Salem Mobility carries the full line of Hydro-Elite Series Walk In Tubs and will be providing installation by a licensed contractor. A display of the Hydro-Elite Series is on display in their Clemmons, NC showroom.
For more information on Salem Mobility, The Hydro-Elite Series or having a tub installed please call our offices at 1-800-397-1123.

2009-06-03T13:08:00.000-07:00

American Standard Walk In Baths offer customers a comfortable, safe, full body soak. American Standard walk in baths make it safe and easy to enter and exit the tub and experience the benefits of bathing. Every American Standard walk in bath includes a large walk-in tub door, buil-in contoured seat and deep soaking dimension for a safe and comfortable full body bathing experience.

American Standard Walk In Tubs come in many convenient sizes to fit your bathing or remodeling needs.

Various Sizes from American Standard Walk In Baths Line:

26x51 Walk In Tub

30x51 Walk In Tub

32x60 Walk In Tub

28x48 Walk In Tub

All of American Standard Walk in tub's are designed for optimal health benefits. A deep warm soak or therapeutif massage is great for arthritis, obesity, rheumatism, back pain, sore knees and other common ailments. Experince the healing benefits of water therapy safely and in comfort!

The American Standard Walk In Baths feature whirlppol systems with back and leg therapy and incudes the automatic tub cleaning system which breaks down all bacteria in the water., whirlpool jets and piping to elimate the maintenance.
The series also incluse the Air Spa System which creates thousands of air bubbles in the bath for a soothing massage of water, heat and air resulting in a relaxing champagne massage. Both, the water and air systems, can be combined into a combo massage unit offering the most comprehensive water therapy available!

The American Standard proudly offers patented features such as the water tight door system, the Quick Drain for faster water removal and chromoatherapy for the ultimate bathing experience! All of American Standards Walk in baths are available with inline heaters, neck rests, tub extender kits and as well as a variety of other features.

For information on ordering a walk in tub please call: 1-800-397-1123

Get Motivated!

2009-05-29T06:31:00.000-07:00

View of the stage in the Greensboro Coliseum from where we were sitting

On Wednesdaytwo co-workers and I went to the Get Motivated Seminars in Greensboro NC. The keynote speakers were Rudy Giuliani, Colin Powell, Zig Ziglar, Robert Schuller, Sully the pilot of the Miracle on the Hudson flight....and many others.

It was a great day with great advice from well experienced leaders in the corporate world.

Colin Powell was my favorite speaker-he spoke on the characteristics of a good leader. He shared great stories and insight from behind the scenes moments as Secretary of State. I'am happy to share some of the things he spoke about.

Here's some of my notes:

A good leader invest into their followers
Award efforts made- even if they aren't successful.
Lead by example.
Validate
Be hard headed but soft hearted.
Build trust, trust, trust- a good leader has the respect and trust of his followers/employees/family etc, etc.
Don't be afraid to cut losses.

Secretary Powell spoke about Ronald Reagan being so easy to follow because he was resolved to abolish communism and to unite Europe. President Reagan believed with all his heart that communism was an evil empire that needed to be destroyed. Powell said that because of the conviction of Reagans beliefs that he would have followed him into any battle to destroy communism....the passion of the mission in Reagans heart was tangible.

The point of the story was that you have to lead by example- be transparent in your mission- have conviction (even in sales or marketing) BELIEVE IN THE GOAL and people will follow and pitch in to assist. It works in politics, it works at home- it works at the office!

Shutterfly

2009-05-21T08:37:00.000-07:00

Have you used Shutterfly printing services? I heart Shutterfly.

I have uploaded thousands of pictures to their website and have used their services for years to print photos, create collages and personalized gifts.

In the past I have used other photo printing companies and was disappointed with the printing, stock of paper use, shipping time, time to upload the files and the overall quality control.

I've never been disappointed with Shutterfly.

More About VBS

2009-05-17T20:00:00.000-07:00

Today Steph and I went to lunch together and then took the boys to Walmart for haircuts and more VBS supplies.
I found out that I will be doing Germany & Colombia. (sheesh!)
Chuck and I worked on the Missions Passport tonight. The girls rode with Andy to SC to get Steve.
I'm off to find a download of a german speaker.

gute nacht!

Sarah

2009-05-16T19:40:00.000-07:00

Today I spent the day with Sarah, my 11 year old.

She helped me find things for my VBS booth. She helped me pick out stickers, stamps and costumes.

I'm always amazed at her capabilities. She's tenacious and strong. Sometimes too tenacious.

Remain Active Walk In Tubs

2009-05-15T07:40:00.000-07:00

Remain Active Walk In Tubs offers a selection of walk in tubs with hydrotherapy in many sizes. I am always impressed by the updated features to the tubs, and the way that the public's opinion really matters to the company.
I think my favorite tub they offer is The Encore walk in tub with both water and air jets. The tub has six water jets, an inline heater and 22 heated airjets.
The tub is beautiful and doesn't look institutional like other walkin tub companies that I've looked at.
Remain Active also carries the entire American Standard Walkin Bath line which offers a vast variety of options that other companies don't have such as the quick drain, chromotherapy and aromatherapy!